I have a situation with my friends parents, who are close family friends, judging my love life...any advice please, there is more details
One of my friends,who i consider like a little brother, recently he and his gf broke up. before they went out his dad pushed for us to go out while his mom hinted about him liking me. after they broke up his mon and him told his dad about them breaking up on his way to my house to hang out. after he told me about them breaking up when he came over, he told me about their conversation in the car which lead to his dad saying how me and him were meant to be and one day i will stop liking his older brother. his mom's comment was i was way to obsessed with him for that to happen. i've battled with this situation a lot because i fell in love with his brother a long time ago, and his parents are part of the reason we aren't together. the other reason is my parents have a rule about dating guys that are over 18 until i am 18 in 7 months. i love his family so much, but it hurts knowing they say things like this. i don't know what to do anymore because i can't nicely put them in their place because who i love is none of their business. to his dad i'm not good enough for his brother and to his mom hes the favorite and i would be a catch. any advice on how to keep handling this? my friend has went from being my bro to making mean comments. i'm afraid i'm going to blow up. thanks for listening!