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How do i tell my boyfriend this?

I was with my ex for 2 years and after he cheated on me i broke up with him and went for someone else not even a month after (stupid i know) and he was the "rebound guy" and he pressured me alot and eventually enough to where we slept together....i broke up with rebound guy after 8 months and about 4 or so months later i fell in love with my best friend of 5 years, about a month into our relationship i thought the whole time he knew i slept with rebound guy but he doesnt....my new loving boyfriend is religious and he knows im not a virgin but idk how to tell him i screwed up and slept with rebound guy...i feel like im lying and its tearing me apart, everytime i try i feel like im gonna throw up....help?

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telling about eachothers pasts is good for a relationship but can also be harmful. It just all depends on his maturity level. The past is the past you cant change it so why fight about it. My advice too you is just talk to him about it. If you need anything message me. Ill help. been in this situation with my current Girlfriend. It worked out fine

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tell him what you just told ud. if he loves you he'll understand that you made a mistake. and if not, he'll forgive you after time

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I don't know why it would matter to the new guy that you slept with rebound guy. It was before the new guy, right?

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You just need to take deep breaths and actually sit down with your current boyfriend and be honest with him. if he loves you as much as he says he does he will understand but if he doesnt than he isnt the right man for you.

Just stay calm hope for the best but prepare for the worse.

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Honesty is the key to good relationships. Tell him before he founds out on his own. If you are ashamed or simply embarrassed, just tell him that, looking back, you know it was a mistake, or tell him how you feel, that you're ashamed of what you did. :)

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If there is no trust there is nothing. Tell him and if its meant to be he will be fine with it !

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What you could do is leave this question up on ask.com so when he uses the computer he sees it and I'm sure he will understand and talk to you...that's what a good boyfriend would do.

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tell him in a letter

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