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Is it better to have 5 guy friends or 2 friend girls?

I have my 5 best guy friends and my 2 best friends who are girls! Who should I chose? I love my guy friends more but my parents don't want me to be even more of a tomboy!

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I'm not getting why you have to choose or "thin out" your friend base? Boys don't necessarily encourage 'tomboyness', that is in a personality... dropping the guys from your life wont change your personality unless you try to change it, or make you dress girly unless you make the effort... you can make those same efforts with the guys there if you're trying to change for your parents, but seriously, unless something about you is harming you or your abilities why would your parents not love everything about you?

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Oh my girl bffs are jealous that I'm always hanging out with my guys, but I love them more cause there not back stabbing bitches! But would it be weird to chose guys over girls as a best friend. And I don't even care about the girl things and secrets cause my guys are much better friends and they say if I chose the girls that's ok but they don't want to lose me, :( And the girls are my best friends, but the real problem is that one girls sister is the miss popular of my school and she's been making my life a living hell till is started to hang with her sister! What should I do?
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Sounds like the boys are the true friends:
1) the boys aren't making ultimatums on your friendship
2) you are having drama and stress over the girls
3) the girls don't seem to respect you or the friendship if they are backstabbing
4) life is more difficult with the girls in it (sister issue)
my advice, don't look at physical attributes, who cares what sex they are, if they are attractive, butch, or just totally unfortunate, who cares if they have the cool stuff, clothes or car, friends are your support system not your window dressing.... choose your friends from who they are and how they treat you.
In your case I would hang out more with the boys, and if the girls are unable/unwilling to accept them as a part of your life then they are unable to accept you as you are
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I chose!!!! I chose my best guy friends: Amir, Deni, Adi, Ale and Jasa! The girls are giving me hate but when school ended me and my friends went home and as soon as my bff Amir was about to enter his house , I was on crossing teh street and I noticed that one of my former girl bffs was there and looking at me, Then I got dizzy and I fainted on the streets... That girls best friend just passed by wile Amir saw me out the window and ran to me and carried me 12 streets to the hospital! So I chose my guys and I don't regret it one bit! Oh and thanks for the advice! <333
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2 girls... I have one friend who is a girl all the rest are guys...... I think the guys are out to kill me...

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They are your friend if u like one more then the other then ok it should not matter what your mom and dad think it only matter what u think

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Don't choose

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