Why does my best guy friend blow up everytime I bring up my (very recent) ex? Please read
Well at least two weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months (I know not that long) But TRUST me my reasons are pretty good.. he didn't cheat on me but he definitely messed up. So my best guy friend starts texting him and talking to him (on his own! I did NOT ask him to) and yells at him for everything that went between me and my (now) ex. Two days ago I thought about talking to my ex just to smooth things over. I shared my errant thought with my best guy friend.. lets call him Jake. And Jake flipped on me so bad by the end of the convo I was afraid I was going to lose my best friend. He said he was sorry but he couldn't deal with me talking to my ex. He then ignored me for the rest of the night.. I'm not gonna lie.. I cried myself to sleep. I love him! he's my BEST friend. I woke up to this sweet text message of him apologizing and telling me he couldnt live without me. So everything was cool with us then. But just yesterday I talked to my ex and Jake yelled at me again :/ Why is he overreacting like this? someone explain please.