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Sex until marriage?

Is there anyone who still believes in sex until marriage? Or does virginity not matter anymore? Have I been living under a rock? .-.

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Saving sex for marriage is a standard I live by. You can save yourself a lot of pain, heartbreak and disease by having a little patience. Don't give up, don't give in, DON'T let yourself be put down. You aren't alone. Any guy who won't respect your wishes is not worth your time. :)

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Plus, my mom told me that your husband will respect you more if you save yourself. He will know how faithful you will be to him. :) At least, that's how I would feel. :)
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Thank you! Lol, I won't give in :)
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Good for you! :) It's good to know there are other ladies out there with a high level of self respect :)
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not only is sex before marriage okay, but i think it's a good idea. you shouldn't go sleeping with guys left and right, but how will you know what to do when you are (if you do) married if you don't have a little sex? but keep your virginity until you are absolutely sure. after all, would you prefer to eat a normal donut, or a donut that had a dick in it. (last part was kind of a joke).

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Well I was raised that sex before marriage is wrong, but honestly, I don't see why? Yeah I follow that rule and waiting, but in my opinion, I think its just a moral example. Waiting until you are married to lose your virginity is just morally accepted, I guess. :)

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wickedpissah

Would you buy a car without taking it for a test drive?
Would you buy a pair of jeans without trying them on first?

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LOL! Good example! :P
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So if the sex isn't good you shouldn't marry them? 'Cause that's what you're implying, who buys jeans they don't like, who gets a car that doesn't feel the way they want it to, right?
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I'm saying that relationships are complex things, and many of them fail the test of time.
If you want a successful long-term relationship, you need to find someone with whom you are completely and utterly compatable.
The physical component of a relationship is very important for developing a sense of intimacy and trust.
Without intimacy and trust, all is lost.
I'm not saying sex is the most important part of a relationship. I'm just saying that it's importance is not to be underestimated.
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