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I need help on guys feelings. please?

ive dated guys before and they have cheated on me.
i just wanna know why, i was nothing but good to them, i never looked at another guy only them, i was a good girlfriend.
i never was crazy or a phsyco...i was nice and gentle with their feelings.
i just wanna understand why.

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Maybe your too gentel and nice, and they want feisty..o.o lol jk
But ive dated a guy who cheated on me and it was just because of his personality, maybe your attracting or picking out the type of guys that cheat... Like bad boys or something. :/

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You know what people say, maybe it's you! But, if you're actually really kind, then your choice in guys is to blame.

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People are bi***s like that. Don't feel bad!

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maybe they wanted a bad girl

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It is probably because a lot of guys, not all, are complete morons that could care less about 'another' girl 's feelings. I hats guys like that. Stay away from them.

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I don't date guys at all.
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I thought you did...
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you just haven't found a good guy seriously not a joke we have different way depending on age and maturity

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You have just had bad luck

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well maybe they just like a better person

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Some guys are just like that. Those that do become bored with their current girlfriend (for some odd reason) and want another. I do not question you not being a good girlfriend but it seems like someone like you deserves someone else better. Remember, this happens to guys too. Girls cheat on the "Nice guys" and we do not understand why.

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FunnyLittleFrog

It's not you. Guys cheat. A young guy especially doesn't want to be held down to one girl. There are some exceptions, but that's the reality.

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Most guys r just not into monogamy, and most of those guys r not honest about it. They likely took ur kindness for weakness. Not ur fault, theirs. But it's not just u, so many men do this to so many women.

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and the other way around too.
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True.
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You might not notice, but you could be coming off as clingy or needy. Or it could be also that some guys and gals are idiots and they cheat. I have been cheated on before, it hurts, but in the end I know that she missed on a fantastic catch. All you can do is keep looking and that is all.

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i guess but its not that a avioded him but i tried my best to give him space and waited for him to talk to me. Which is what he always did
he was my first bf and i got cheated on but oh well hes not that nice like he use to be anymore. and i got a new better and nicer bf so in his face! :P
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exactly!
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jwade35

It's hormons... It like runs out there nose and everywhere else.. Slight breeze can do it
It's not you. Young guys are turds.. I was one once

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It's nature men's primal urge is to sew seeds everywhere

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im a guy and there are 3 REASONS a guy would cheat
1: he doesnt know what he wants
2: when he doesnt like the way things are playing out he wont tell u about another girl just so they can spare ur feelings
#3 is only for some and its because some guys are jerks but youll instantly know if there a jerk when u see them by the way they dress and act

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the second one i cant understand well for me i can understand him not wanting to hurt me but letting me find out on my own just hurts even more
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