Being married three times and divorced does not necessarily mean that you are unable to make a marriage work. It might be something else that is out of control. Talking to a professional marriage therapist might help understand what it is.
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Not necessarily. I know of a particular gentleman who has been married 5 times. He is one of the most trusting and caring man I ever met. To each wife he was loyal and faithful and a great provider. But number one died, number two ran off with someone else, number three married for citizenship then failing that she divorced him and ran off, number four decided after 18 years she was a lesbian and asked for a divorce, Number five has been with him over 12 years and they are the happiest couple you will ever meet. Your soul mate is out there. Just be careful and patient.
It's a sign of bad choices, a sign that perhaps you made choices without really knowing what you were getting into because you were blinded by love, missed red flags, ignored facts, it's not your failure to make a marriage work its your failure to marry someone before you really knew them well enough due to your own inability to see the whole person, just the side you wanted to see.