Trust is earned, and if you force it, he might think your doing it because you did something so he should not trust you. Just be yourself and be there for him, especially when he needs you. Just keep telling him you will always be there for him, and mean it and you will be fine.
Why doesn't he now??? If its cause his last girlfriend cheated or lied, that's his problem not yours. You'd be wise to advise him of this ASAP! You can't and shouldn't pay for someone else's mistakes. If you gave him a reason to mistrust you, then time and honesty is the only way to rebuild trust.
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Last edited at 3:33PM on 1/25/2013
I am assuming you didnt give him any reason to be distrustful of you. Sometimes people who are devious in some way will project their own pathology on other people. Thieves think people are out to steal from them, liars think people are lying. It's called projection. Cheaters constantly think their significant other is cheating on them. If you have always been straight with this person but he is convinced otherwise no matter what you do or say, my guess is he is projecting his own dishonesty. If my girlfriend acted like she couldn't trust me, and I never gave her reason or cause for this I would wonder if she is doing what she is accusing me of. What is it he is accusing you of doing? As J.R.R. Tolkien wrote, the treacherous are ever distrustful. If my girlfriend didn't trust me, I would feel it is because she isn't being trustworthy. And if she couldnt get realistic about whatever that is, then I'd call it quits. Is he accusing you of anything? Like cheating on him? Maybe he is doing what he is accusing you of. Or he is just playing head games and trying to control you. Either way this is a serious deal breaker in my book.
will you didn't give us any description of what you did but we can imagine to 3 things that you could done first thing you have to do is the trust yourself then try to show your boyfriend that you can be trusted again I lost a girlfriend because of that but it took 24 years later that happened to her by her husband . .