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Why do people cheat?

I have a friend that talks about this guy & that guy she's doin & talking too. & she has a boyfriend & a baby with him. she even hooked up with some random UPS dude...Where did she meet him? At the hospital the day she gave BIRTH TO HER BABY! I just don't think people should cheat, like leave the person your with instead of cheating! What do y'all think?

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That left me speechless...hooked up with a UPS guy the day she gave birth!? Oh my...that's a horrible mother!

And to answer your question, I hate cheaters, they don't deserve to be in a relationship!

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Exactly!
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I find cheating to be wrong, it is actually a very immature thing to do. Now as for why people do it? I can't tell you that, honestly.

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Many people just are like that, they aren't loyal to whomever they were close to before:/ it's kind of sad to see people like that:/

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AGREED, definitely no cheating. If its the right person you can tell so if you can't decide, dump both and take a break.No idea how it started

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Selfishness

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Simply put but fantastic point!
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i think that people do this because theyre partner is probably not giving them an attention do they feel the need to cheat

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Because they're dumb

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I with u

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Is bad and selfish they do that cause they have no heart

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cheating I say is just not right like if your in a relationship don't go out and cheat on your bf/gf

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Wow! I can't even fathom, she has a child with someone and then she meets a guy she's currently hooking up with when she's in the hospital after giving birth!?!? Wow shame on her and that guy she's hooking up with. I feel so sorry for the poor guy who's unaware of all this. It's truly making me angry. At least to the responsible thing and leave the person your currently or stop these ridiculous actions. I feel bad for the baby as well. I can't stand cheaters!!!

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Because its hard to explain just try it

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Wait are you telling her to cheat!?!? What is wrong with you! Unlike yourself most of us have our heads on tight and have what's called morals and values that would go against that. You need help.
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Wow... No, no one has the right to cheat, its not right, its not fair, its immoral.
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Your friend is mentally unwell. Women who are healthy, do not go around serially "doing" various men, including one they met on the day they give birth. She needs some counseling, see if you can convince her to get some for the sake of that poor child.

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Perfect answer. And your right she does need help.
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Thank you. I hope she can get her to talk to someone.
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FunnyLittleFrog

It's exciting. They don't really want a commitment. The list is endless. They may just be bored and someone sexy came on to them.

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Because the believe in a love triangle? Like when you can have more than one true love.

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That's the nature of us all... We treat each other wrongly because we are selfish. We are not satisfied with what we have so we cheat, thinking it will make us happy; but, it just leaves us empty and worse off then we were before.

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Yes! Exactly! Good insight.
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It's probably because they know they don't really have any redeeming qualities or a worthwhile personality. So instead of working on improving themselves, they prefer to take the easy way out and assume they are desirable because they can seduce people.

Sadly this shouldn't be much comfort seeing as ANYONE can get laid. No matter your weight, sex, height, deformity, there is always at least one person out there that will hit that. So it's a pretty sad thing for a person to comfort themselves with.

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Are you sure she's not making it up to sound "cool"?

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Yes I am positive! I've met every single guy she's been with. It's discussing
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I was thinking she might have a sex addiction if she hooks up with lots of guys, but there are people who are selfish and really don't care how their actions might affect other people.
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PoisonIvyLeo

Cheating is an easy way out. Takes guts to be honest. If you cheat...what else would you do?

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I think people cheat because secretly the have low self esteem, and feel that they themselves are not worthy of a partner that saves themselves for one person, so the cheater cheats.

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for a lot of people, it comes down to low self esteem. you will probably also notice these are the same people who talk the loudest, try to look like they are "all that" ect. the more quiet, self assured people have less to prove, although they still cheat, i suspect it is for different reasons than trying to be a ghetto queen. a good start to being treated with some respect would be to learn the proper use of the english language. if you don't sound like trash, people may be less inclined to treat you like trash and expect trashy behaviour that they can take advantage of. rise up don't take the path of least resistance for a bit of recognition. the easier you get it, the less it's worth, as are you!

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Love is like a test.. you pass, or you Fail.. (:

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