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If my gf is 18 and I'm 16 and she pergnate can we can't support are child but don't want to adopt it what can we do

Are there any government help to buy diapers and food for baby need help

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do you want to start the kids life on government assistance? i would say get a job but you cant even spell pregnant.the first year is the cheapest wasit till he has to have real food and real clothes,you and your pedophile girl friend should concider adoption

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Yes cuz I love my kid
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How can you love something you've never met and aren't carrying? You're really in love with the idea of being a "father", wake up and do what's best for the child.
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How can you be in love with someone you haven't met and aren't carrying? You are in love with the fantasy of being a "father". For the baby's sake, consider letting it be adopted.
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Ask yall parents to help

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can parents bail you out? government has a few programs and food pantries , maybe local church

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Tell your parents that you need help or get a job !

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Is there any government help
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I don't think so.
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Can my gf apply for food stamps and cash or wick
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I'm really not sure I'm only 14. Google it, ask your parents but please remember that babies life & future is in both of you and your gf's hands so make sure your making the right decision. k & Good Luck
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I'm sorry you should probably give him or her up that's too young to have a child especially when your only 16 tell your parents and ask them for support if you and your girl friend really want that baby then work a lot and stay in school

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You shouldn't have had a kid to begin with.

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Why would you even bring a child into this world if you couldn't take of it ? Why don't you act like a man and get a job and provide for you child !!!!!

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Ask your Parents as well as hers for help until you are old enough to get a job and able to stand on your own feet and provide for the child. Just don't make another baby after this one. Continue your education, finish it for your child's sake.

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If you are old enough to get her pregnant and become
A dad then you should be old enough to have a job. I'm so sick of people living off the government when they don't try. There's no reason why she can't work either. Yes it might be hard but you both made the mistake when you had sex. I feel sorry for you baby.

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My brain hurts after reading this!!!! Get a job. Both of you. If you are adult enough to have sex and get pregnant then you are adult enough to get a job and work your butt off like the rest of us.

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There is pregnancy support to help you, call 1-800-848-LOVE (5683) to talk to someone. They have someone to talk to 24 hours a day and can help you figure out your options concerning having the baby, housing, finances and any questions or concerns you may have.

I think it is great you are willing to keep the child. Do not let anyone change your mind about keeping the baby. The baby needs a family and you can work everything out as you go along. There is support out there, it's just a phone call away. God bless.

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I am glad you are around to answer questions like this one. Way to many people want to criticize and condemn. You have a wonderful heart and it shows when you answer questions like these. Your family is very lucky to have you. So is ask.com.
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Mamaatembo53 thanks for the help
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No problem, god bless! : D
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Put a little more effort into learning to speak and write English and less into learning how to take advantage of Govt. programs. Get a job. No one owes you anything. You owe it to your child to provide for it's needs.

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Now I don't have to answer this kid, thanks!
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Agree!!!
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I hate people like you! You think you can take government resources for something that YOU created. Why can't you get a job and support your child? Why do people like us who work hard need to support a 16 and 18 year old?

Those resources are for people who work hard and lost their job, homes, etc. YOU on the other hand are a bunch of lazy kids who would rather get stuff for "free" yet it is NOT free! We who work need to pay for it! Ugh get a brain and do the right thing!!!

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