Well I personally think "Sharon" was just using you! She was telling you about her ex & feeling bad & she probably knows you still have feelings for her! It's comfortable between the two of you. I think you need to still give it time between the two of you. Go date other ppl. See how you feel. Don't just go & jump back into this with "Sharon" you just may regret it!!
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I recommend leaving here, shes probably just using you...
I say go with the new girl, there's a reason you and "sharron" broke up and now she is trying to use you so you guys should move on
She's a player sir. Keep looking to find true love :) don't get forced or accidentally fall for any girl. Choose one good one and go for her
You had a weak moment. If you don't think you can change your boring ways, I'd go for "Jenny."
I love your ..uh.....pun. ;)
Well, I really like the new girl more, speaking from an outside perspective. Sharon dumped you, and you're cute, too. And she has your number. She knew all this time that you still have it bad for her but she didn't choose you. The new girl appreciates you and who knows? If you give her a chance, maybe you will experience a new type of relationship.
Aj..You need to talk to her again! And tell her to keep her hands in her pocket You can't hold a mature , meaningful conversation with those kinds of things going on. You aren't talking with your minds when emotions are getting in the way...Know what I mean?. She might be playing games with you and you don't deserve that Why is she having boyfriend issues..Sounds like she is EASY AJ. You don't need a broken heart again. Cool it with her. Let her think for herself what SHE REALLY WANTS FROM YOU.
You can still "date" others since you are not going steady and besides, how else will you know what you are looking for if you only date one ,rather confused gal. Take it slowly..:)
The girl who dumped you for being boring is not at all a decent choice because she might do it again and again,and youre on the losing end of her destructive patterns. The other one may not be real if shes from the internet.It sounds like you are trying too hard.If you dont think about girls,and dont seek it out,perhaps the right one might fall right in your lap.SOmeone without all these dramas and hang-ups.You seem like a pretty nice guy.Just flow with it..It'll happen.SOmeone you dont even suspect,I think,.
That's up to you. You know if you still want to date her. Just follow you're instinct. And what do you want. Is it a head game. Are they playing you. Are you popular and they want to hang around you for you're friends.
You should just get over her, there are plenty out there you are still young and have a whole life ahead of you
Go for Sharon. She obviously though SOMETHING was interesting about you!! ;)
Keep away from Sharon . I know she is in your heart she's part of your life but, you gotta move on.she has problems yes but doesn't mean you gotta take all the garbage.Try anybody different but not her. The girl from net, you gotta try... Leave the old ones behind and move your life forward!!! Good luck!!!
AJ, ...here's some "Man" advice from an old man:
Date BOTH girls. Maybe a third, if another pops into your life.
You're young & single.
Enjoy it!!
Why get into a committed relationship before you're ready?
Have fun, dude.
Seriously.
Use your instincts. The get back together sex rarely works. More problems will surface over time.
Sex does release stress, but it does not answer the question. Does SHE love me?
True love is unconditional..Sharon seemed to talk down to you.I would not stand for that. Love is much more than sex..You have to communicate and above all,,,honesty. You are very young..no matter how old you feel..There is much out there for you. Go and try life..Give prayer a try..it sure can't hurt..And think I am young and free and I will make good choices.. You can stop loving if it is one sided..What future is there in a one sided love.?.If children come into the world..they deserve more than one caring parent .. Sounds like she has issue that need to be addressed before you commit to one another..You are young..Think it..:):):)
Didn't she call you boring? That is a red flag AJ. Thiose words sting and when said, usually come from within, These are the feelings you have to deal with..Am still curious why she /.he left the last relationship they had..
Aj,you take one problem at a time..Don't add any new ones dear.If you chose to ignore the obvious, that is your choice, but people don't usually change once married..That is why one dates for a few years before committing to hopefully, a long beautiful relationship ..Children to me, are so important in the relationship of man and wife..IIt is all about the welfare of children to us..Hard to explain
So you are 17..Junior or senior year? I found school tough because I should have taking a business course , not college and those college snobs can do a number on you!!! Not that this will help you lol..See! We all have school issues. I made the best of my issues ....long story. You just have to tell yourself we are all in the same boat.We just handle our crosses differently. Soon, you will be on your own If kids bully you, make them crazy..Smile and walk away.They aren't worth your breath.And they get tired of being nasty if they get no response.You would be the mature one for ignoring their silliness.
Believe in yourself.
We already discussed girls.That is something you have to deal with.Only you truly know what you want from a relationship.
Money? How large is your family? There will always be money issues..Not your concern really.You are not the breadwinner..You are a young adult growing up.
Money? Can't tell you how much we lost last crash..401K..real bad here,,ehh We trust God will help us. So far he sure has.
What is a little thing" [for grounding] ..what did you do? OR SAYYY?????
If 2 people understand you, that is considered a gift! They say if you have just one trustworthy friend, you are thus lucky!
Picked on by blacks? Only you can let them get to you..Keep your mouth shut and search for the right companion in school , black or white,,.and stick with that person.If you ignore like I said, kids get bored and look for the weak.Be strong..
Sorry for your chilhood..Here is where therapy can help. ADD , drugs, alcohol? Let them run their course,Maturity and self esteem will take care of that. Let yourself grow..You don't need to be serious with a girl till you get your life in order,All you need now is to be a father YE GADS.Let's not go there..Am I making any sense to you?
She is just using u for her own sexual advances. I don't know if u want to be used for that type of thing. But if u do go for it bro! And if you don't. I suggest you cut off contact with her
