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Zoey1230: 4 months ago

What should I do about this?

I've liked the same guy for over a year now, and he leads me on constantly because he knows I like him. I had a class with him allll semester and we sat by each other the whole time. We talked everyday, and then he started flirting. Hard core. Of course, I liked it but I knew he was just leading me on. But I guess I didn't really mind... Anyway every weekend I would miss him and be excited to get to see him the next week. Now, the semesters over and we have NO classes together. He was saying how he'll miss our talks and everything but I am going absolutely crazy. It's been two days and I already miss him so much. He's all I can think about and all i've been posting about on Tumblr. I don't know what to do if I can't talk to him everyday! I need help... What should I do?? Please help!

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candybar: 4 months ago via iPhone

You're 14. Ahhh, the beauty of youth and drama...

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Zoey1230: 4 months ago

Haha I hate that beauty(:

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Tony737: 4 months ago via iPhone

(throws a gold star at Candy) DUCK!!!

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candybar: 4 months ago via iPhone

Hey Tony!! You're such a bad boy. Guess that's why I love ya!!! Spin on the washing machine?

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Tony737: 4 months ago via iPhone

WOOOO HOOOOO!!! Crank it up!

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candybar: 4 months ago via iPhone

Highest spin! Rrrrrrrr, done!

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candybar: 4 months ago via iPhone

Ohhhh, it's good....

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SunShynee: 4 months ago

You should tell him. If he knows then tell him for him to be positive. All you need to know is if he likes you too.

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Zoey1230: 4 months ago

I've told him before and he liked someone else. I'm almost positive he doesn't feel the same way because he knows he could have me if he really wanted me. Thanks!(:

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XCrunner136: 4 months ago

if he says he'll miss your talks then the next time you pass him in the hall, give him your number but make it clear just cause you are giving him your number that does not mean you are asking him out. and you could also sit with him at lunch

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Zoey1230: 4 months ago

He already has my number..:/ We used to text but we always end up fighting over the stupidest stuff so I don't think he'll be texting me again soon. Thanks for the Advice!(:

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Kap41312: 4 months ago

Ask him if he really likes you. And depending on what he says try going steady. If not, then tell him you have to stop flirting ext.

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Tony737: 4 months ago via iPhone

You're young, you'll get over it. You'll have several more puppy love crushes come and go.

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Zoey1230: 4 months ago

Thanks, I love the way you said this. (: I sure hope I get over it soon!

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candybar: 4 months ago via iPhone

I love the way you say it too....

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rbmargo: 4 months ago via iPhone

maybe ask him out?? u guys could talk then. but if u just want to hang out like friends maybe sit with him at lunch??? look during class its not like u guys can hang out and talk its ya know class just do little things together like carpool and be together @ parties

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Zoey1230: 4 months ago

Yeah, I tried this last summer and he had "soccer" all the time. I got the hint... :/ But thanks for the answer!(:

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merrilltom: 4 months ago via iPhone

Call him
Text him
Facebook
Email
There are many forms of communication that you and he can use, is he not interested in keeping the communication going? You said he "leads you on", it sounds like you may be right. If he has an interest in you as strong as yours is for him, he'll find a way to keep in touch on a daily basis, if not, it's like you said, he's leading you on.

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Zoey1230: 4 months ago

Your totally right. He would keep in touch if he really wanted too.. I just hate thinking he doesn't. Thanks for the advice(:

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merrilltom: 4 months ago via iPhone

Zoey, if this guy was attracted to you, there are others who are as well. Give it time, you'll be alright, k?

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peter35: 4 months ago via iPhone

If you're positive he was leading you on you really should move on. I mean he was just using you for fun. You deserve to have someone who enjoys you for you not just for fun

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Zoey1230: 4 months ago

I couldn't agree more. Thankyou(: The hard part is going to be moving on:/

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peter35: 4 months ago via iPhone

Yes it's tough. You can be sure this won't be the last time a guy leads you on. You're young. Just move on

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thelz1: 4 months ago via Android

slide him ur #.

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directinor: 4 months ago

Tell him how you feel ask him out

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Taylor113: 4 months ago

Well seems to me that you really like him. You need to talk to him about it and see if he really likes you. Who knows maybe he isnt just leading you maybe he really likes you. But if he doesnt then you have to forget him. Trust me I know it sounds really hard and almost impossible to do but you can do anything if you believe. Have sure to spend a lot of time with your friends, and always keep yourself busy. You have find something fun to do, something like a hobby to keep you busy so you dont have time to think about him. Also avoid seeing him, and if you do make sure you dont talk to him. It might take a while but you will forget him. And you will start being interested in someone else. I hope things work out for you. Good Luck, and remember to keep believing and listen to your heart :) <3

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Zoey1230: 4 months ago

Thanks, this is really great advice!(: And I couldn't agree more, I need to get over him bad!

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