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Man in charge or woman in charge?

in a relationship should the man have the final say or the woman or both agree together and it be equal.

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That all depends on what we're doing. ;)

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devilsgrave

the one who works the most...

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Outside or inside the home??
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they should agree. but, sometimes this doesnt happen (no one agrees on everything), so they should compromise. neither the man or the woman should have final say in a good relationship

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the man. because in most relationships, the man makes the money and the women just spends it.

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So if the Man has an outside job, the Women's job at home is worthless work? How backward...
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if they dont have kids its worthless.
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Really? Who cleans, cooks and does laundry?
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who goes to work for 10 hours and comes home to a list of chores? (not trying to start a fight)
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But what if they both work the same amount of hours ...
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dishes and laundry dont take the same amount of hours. but if they have kids and the woman stays home to take care of them including house work, then they pretty much do the same amount of work.
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Definitely the woman!

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lol are you serius
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Yeah...Are you trying to be racist?!
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Nobody should be in charge of anybody.Both should agree and be equal.

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Agreeeee!
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AndrewBalkaran

I would say men but that would be a lie. We all know women run our lives.

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Yeah pretty much!
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Women rule
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They should agree to compromise. This can be hard if one is a control freak.
Although you will find in life the older you get, some things are just not worth arguing about.

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dustee
soooo true...cookies
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The Woman, because women think more than men.

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jajajaja its funny but youre wrong men and women are equal, so think about it and dont be feminist, its sad
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In the movies, women. In real life, men. But only by 1% ... 51 for the males, 49 for the females.

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Nice save mister....
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No save, it's how we do it in our house :-)
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tattoogirl
Hahaha!! Really? Can I ask Mrs. Tony that? Where is she??
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No Tony, we just let you think that. ;)
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T.G., she's at WaWa getting coffee, I'll ask her when she gets back haha this oughta be good!
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Kuu, like I said, only in the movies. The lefties who ruin, ooops, I mean run Hollywood want everybody to think this way.
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Shana says: "Tony has the final say, but I always get my way." ... Hey that rhymed? Haha
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You don't have to argue with me Tony. I am a stay at home mom who aims to please my man. Definitely not going to fall for that Hollywood crap.
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tattoogirl
Well first off Tony, good job rhyming there!! I don't know if I would always let you have your way or anybody else for that matter!! haha!! That was part of my problem in my marriage early on. Then I wanted some freedom & it wasn't tolerated. So now I get to make all the decisions! It's great I love being single! :-)
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T.G., that wasn't mine rhyme, it was hers haha
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Read it again, SHE gets HER way ^
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tattoogirl
Lmao!! I have been saying for weeks, I have to get new glasses or contacts!! I am squinting so bad!! To tell you the truth I'm worse than Helix right now & he's bad!! Hahahahaha!!!
Well tell Shana, I said that sounds like 50/50 to me!! o.O ....that girl knows what she is doing & how to do it!!! hehehe!!!
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Well it's me having the final say and my final say is how she wants it because I'm always trying to make her happy so my final say is HER way.
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tattoogirl
Haha!! Well I love it!! You two sound perfect together!! Maybe someday I will find happiness & love like that!! If not I'm ok with that too? Maybe???? :-/ I know I'm just happy with where I'm at right now!! :-)
Have a great night!! Hope to see you around soon!! Take care!! =)
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The bible says that the man is the head of the home but the bible commands the man to love his wife as Christ loved the church.

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Both in charge.

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I don't care what anybody thinks personally I'd say both need to agree upon things when it comes to making choices in the relationship that way it won't seem like one or the other will not be taking their relationship for granted or seem like taking advantage of it....

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tattoogirl
Agreed!! =)
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Thank you! :D
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Absolutely!!
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There are two people in a relationship... The person who is right and the husband.

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tattoogirl

I think if you want to have a relationship without a lot of fighting it better be one that has compromise in it. Where you both can talk things out. But also realize that its not always going to be roses either!! Don't take each other for granted!!

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DolceMonserrat7

Both equally:)

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That's one of those "it depends" questions. There are questions where the woman has the better sense and judgement and can offer the better advice. Others where the man's suggestion might have a better impact. Relationships are all about give-and-take. If it becomes too one sided, resentment will build and it will deteriorate.

So, having said that, here's something to ponder......if a man is in the woods with no women around to hear him make a decision...is he still wrong?

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tattoogirl
Lmao!! I love it!! Best I heard in a long time!!
I don't know the answer to that!! But my guess is he is still wondering if he made the right decision or not?
Hahahaha!!!
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It should be 50/50

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dustee
nothing in like is 50/50..nothing
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Ideally, both should have a say on it. Especially when it comes to very important decisions. Although most of the time, I think it depends on whoever has more knowledge about the topic in question. But it's nice to compromise and meet at the middle, it's more diplomatic that way. ;)

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dustee

He should agree with me that I should be in charge... ;)

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tattoogirl
You go girl!! :-)
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Okay?
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Any couples finances should always be equal, when your a couple, both should be able to agree together on the outcome of any purchase, no matter who works outside the home or inside the home, your both equal partners. If you can't agree, shut down whatever your doing that you can't agree on, until you can talk it out.

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dustee
Cupid
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it all depends on personality

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both because men and women complement each other

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EQUAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Both should help out and like RazielFerhman said, they should compliment each other. Woman shouldn't be constricted to the responsibility of the home (unless she wants to), both should help and support each other (and their families) :)

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