yeah i wud haveta agree, with a prolly not. there are cases where they actually do love u but they lose control, but most of the time when this happens they dont. regardless, whoever is in that situation needs to get out. now.
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You need to ask yourself "Do I really want to live the rest of my life like this?" Because if you stay in this relationship and one day you decide to get out, that is if he doesn't put you in the hospital first, I guarantee you you WILL fall right back into the same type of relationships over and over. Been there and it's a horrible feeling especially if there are children(now or future) involved. Get out before he "Brain-washes" you!!! Good Luck
hi Lil, I've been there, & I know how hard it is. The bottom line is, you do need to escape, married with children or not. You get why I say escape & not leave, don't you? Plan it, be wise, secretive & never ever tell them or anyone that may inform them. Love is different to different people. This aggressor is probably dealing with their own unresolved issues & is so eaten up by them, that what seems like love to them, is not love to us. If they truly loved you they would never lay a finger on you in any harmful way. They are probably also a dictator, a slanderer & a bully, I call them Hitlers. Think more highly of yourself & demand respect (not from him) from yourself. Find an escape route & run like hell. Don't ever go back, they do not change, so please don't listen to their pleas.