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I'm 14 and I have been dating this girl for a little over seven months.. How can I break up with her but not. Hurt her ....

She says she is in love with me and never wants to lose me but...I don't feel the same for her.. Please help I don't know what to do...

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The most important thing is to be honest. Tell her straight up what you feel, or dont feel. Be sure to tell her how perfect she is to reassure her that she is in fact good enough. Of course she will be devistated, but in time she will move on.
It's not fair to either of you to continue to relationship if you dont have feelings for the girl.

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Your Welcome! :) Good luck :D
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dude dont worry about that stuff u r too young




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Tell her you dont think it's going to work out and that you're really sorry. There's not really a way to break it to her without at least hurting her feelings a little.

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If You Break-Up with Her... It will hurt Her.... there is no avoiding that fact

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well i always say its me not you then they say really and i say no its you lol

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Aw:( There is not a "easy" way to break up with her..
You're just going to tell her it's not working..
Good luck:)

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Its best to tell her how you feel then to wait longer. Tell her nicely and don't blurt it out in a way that can make her feel very sad for life

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Have HER break up with you! Start acting like you are not interested in what she says and after a while she will break up with you and you both walk away happy.

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i know that you are probably not a Christian, but pray about it

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Your going to hurt her so you might as well get it over with !

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