"... Top coat, top hat, I don't worry 'cause my wallet's fat, Black shoes, white gloves, Lookin' sharp, lookin' for love, They come runnin' just as fast as they can, 'cause every girl's crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man ..."
Are you attractive? that is a key element. you can not cover poopy with diamonds, because under the diamonds there will still be poopy. Just clean it up. If you can't then look for a girl who actually likes your swagg. >.>' uh, other than that learn to play the guitar, musicians and chefs are sexy.
Be you. But don't be mean or clingy or disgusting at least the last one right off the bat. We want you to be there for us when you need us. So basically try smiling at the girl you like every once and a while. Start a random conversation or give a random complement. Look your best. Don't have your pants hanging past you butt unless she likes that. But DON'T change who you are. That's not what a girl should do
Be nice, and try and be her friend first. Don't just jump into a relationship, you want to make sure you are right for each other. Although, sometimes it works out when you barely know the girl. My boyfriend asked me out a week after we met, and we have been together for over 2 months now. Be yourself, don't act like someone else. Make time for her, and make her feel special. Be there for her when she needs someone. A girl doesn't want you to impress her, but she does want a friend who will support her and make her feel special. Tell her she is beautiful (when she is upset or something) and cheer her up. Make it clear that you want to be her friend, and it might turn into something. Don't worry if you just stay friends, because she might not be the right person for you. Just keep trying. And pay attention. If a girl shows interest in you, don't ignore it. Make it clear that you see it.