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When you ask a girl out and she flatly refuses do you let her know she's garbage?

You went out of your way to acknowledge that you like her and she has no appreciation of it.

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Only if you are an incredibly sucky human with a poor self-image and weak self-confidence. Massive arrogance like yours usually is a cover up for exactly that.
I dont blame her for saying 'no' if this is the way you react. She could probably tell what sort of personality you have. It sounds like shes a very intelligent woman. I wouldnt date a guy who appently thinks he's Gods gift to woman kind and who's first reaction is meaness every time he's thwarted either.
Went out of your way to acknowlege her? Seriously?! Im laughing right now! The collossal arrogance!!!!! VERY smart woman!

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lmao. good points
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never burn a bridge you may want to cross

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Couldn't have said it better
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Experience...
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I think u are wrong my friend

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No you act like a gentlemen and brush it off like it didn't bug you!but don't snap on her just because she said no!get another girl and shell come running back seeing she lost a good thing!

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Why did you want to date a girl whose "garbage"?

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You're hurt at the moment. Take a step back, cool down and know there is a bunch of girls out there who would love to go out with you.

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Just show her you can do better then her.

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Plain and simply dude she sounds like a b****. Best avoid chicks like that unless you want a nightmare on your hands.

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This is why neither of you can get a girlfriend. LOL.
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AndrewBalkaran
Haha. This douche is giving me advice on girls.
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AndrewBalkaran
Well I'm a nice guy. So what advice do you have for me? Stop being nice?
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Woman, actually. I'd say I probably know what most girls like in a guy. ;) At least, what girls not carrying STD's like. Then again, that's probably the only kind you like anyways.
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She turned the OP down. How does that make the girl "garbage" or "a b****"? Better to decline up front than take him for a ride.
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AndrewBalkaran
Well she could have let him off a little bit easier. If a girl liked me and I didn't like her back I would tell her she's nice but I enoy being friends.
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Honestly, if this guy is willing to tell a girl she's garbage, I'm more inclined to believe that he is just super-defensive, rather than she was mean to him.
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AndrewBalkaran
I never told him to call her garbage.. I told him avoid her.
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You said "she sounds like a b****."
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AndrewBalkaran
Yeah but I never told him to call her one.
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I didn't say you told him to call her anything. My point is that how do we know that the girl was mean at all? We don't.
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AndrewBalkaran
Then how do you know I like girls with STDS as you stated before when you know don't know me at all.
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Because your response, coupled with your picture of some douchebag with a popped collar, implies so. *shrug*
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AndrewBalkaran
My response has nothing do to with my personality. In that case you sound like a 60 year old with a bunch of cats. *shrug*
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"Let her know she's garbage"? Kid, she just doesn't like you that way. She's not obligated to return your affection. Welcome to the adult world. The sooner you stop thinking that you're doing this girl a favor, the sooner you'll be able to actually handle a relationship.

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Garbage? No, you accept the fact that not every girl you are attracted to will be attracted to you. Be prepared for it to happen, that's how it works.

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OMG No, then you just look dumb... I mean YOU asked her out. There was attraction! Maybe she is getting over someone. Or maybe it was HOW you approached her...

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She might have to be garbage with you, because she can't accept you, but she might has some great value with others.

I think you might be able to let her know that she's garbage because you are seriously hurt, and I guess she won't feel hurt too much even you tell her that way, but you might feel better after that. The worse consequence is that she will never value you again. :p

But things might not be so bad, she might say apology to you and come out with you after she saw your passion to her.

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NO dont trash talk her just keep asking everyday for the rest of the year until she says yes

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thats not a good idea....
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it works perfect for me
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So EVERY girl you ask out MUST date you? They don't have a choice? Maybe you're not her type. Maybe she's not interested. Maybe she thinks you're garbage. Get over yourself, bro. You're making too much out of this. Move on.

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