How to end a friendship without pain?
There are two "friends" in my life - one, R, I know since 1st grade, and the other one, M, I know since she was born. About M - when she decided to study in other city, I was okay - I don't want to stop her to follow her wishes, I just can suggest. When she went there to study, I saw changes in her - is now different than she was. M's anorexic, I should help her, and I do, but I don't like her anymore. I can't explain it. And I'm sorry. And our families are friends, too. And about R - she was really fat, now she's getting fitter with every second - she'll probably end up anorexic just like M, and I suggested her to stop with these diets. I protected her, when they said she was fat..Now I see the changes in her, too - she's confident in the bad meaning, and started to talk with other class mates. I don't mind if she's talking with them, but I see that she's leaving me slowly. We don't even talk that much for 2+ months. I have my boyfriend, and he's the only one for me. M and R are really getting me out of control. I don't want them. How to stop our friendship?