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I have to ask opinions... is it normal for people to be friends with their ex's? The man I'm talking to states that his x will probably visit sometimes. I appreciate the honesty, but I feel rather uncomfortable. how should I react appropriately with this?

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No way.I couldn't stand to be around any of them or see them with other people.They are exes for a reason.

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it is normal but i believe that only sometimes

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No not at all

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act like you're over it

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I'm friends with my ex if that answers you question.

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well of course it uncomfortable for you this women has been with who ever this person is. well i've seen it in movies that friends with their x so i guess it is

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I'm friends with my ex's but I'm single so I guess it's different.

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talk to him. ask him if they still have feelings for each other. do they have kids together? basically you just need to talk to him and let him know how you feel about it

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Ya I spoke with him an he indicated not having "love" feelings for her. But I guess they were in drug rehab together. He said he doesn't want to be with her.
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you need to tell him how you feel about her coming over. and you need to ask yourself why you are with someone you can't trust
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You don't want your significant other to "visit" with his x. What are we in high school?

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I'm really close with one of my exact so I would say its ok

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I would not be okay with my boyfriend hanging around his ex, and you shouldn't be either. I can see if you're single, but this person is a threat to your relationship. They've been together once which means they find each other attractive. What's to stop them from kissing each other or more when you're not there? Chances are when she comes over she's going to flaunt whatever she can to win her old boyfriend back, or at the very least make him wish he could be with her. She will probably tell you it's okay she doesn't feel anything for him, and he will say the same. But that's bs! If you were with someone you had feelings for them, and those feelings can easily come back sometimes they never even go. You should especially find out if they have children. If they have children or a child it's time to go! You do NOT want any baby mama drama. I don't care how nice the woman is! Because if you marry this man there will always be money coming out of your household to go to the baby he created. But if you are just so in LOVE with this man recommend he get a blood test to see if he's really the father. Best thing to do in my eyes is leave. He obviously has a lot of mixed feelings about his ex. And if she's going to visit a lot it isn't a good idea for you to hang around. What if they're just having fun painting one day? Then they have a cute little paint fight and kiss? Yeah you would never know most likely, because he wouldn't even tell you. She and him is bad news for sure! Either he dumps the ex, or you dump him.

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