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Is it wrong to feel this way?

Me and my girlfriend just broke up from a 9 month relationship, at first i was crying, but now I'm good and laughing already. We are still really good friends though. But it feels wrong to feel this way

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Nope. When you think about it, most boyfriend and girlfriend relationships fail so you should get use to it. And it's healthy you guys are still friends afterwards. That's how you want it to end but it doesn't always work that way.

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No, it isn't wrong....

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No its ok

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I dont think its wrong at all. Just go along with it.

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its not its a good thing most relationships end in pain and hurt but u seem ok

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It usually happens like that trust me. My friend goes through this all the time.

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Well it's not bad, it's just going to hurt more once she moves on you think you're ok now. But you won't be for long. Good luck.

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#Friend_Zone

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That's really good, and it means you are healthy mentally! I wish I could be more like you, I've been bawling my eyes out....

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that's sad, nobody should have to experience that.
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I know, but most people at sometime in their lives.... :(
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true, but there are always ways out, hope never dies so long as you choose to see the silver lining
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Thanks. I'll keep that in mind :,)
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no problem, my sister has been saying a phrase in latin for a long time, and i forget the latin wording, but the english translation is, "the wounds of love, are healed by love itself", i have found it to be true in all cases, so it may work for you as well
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thanks(= and don't worry, just like preppyboy said
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no, it shows that you have an astounding mental strength and ability to block out emotional pain that usually comes from a relationship ending, it's actually very good, not bad at all.

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Never feel bad for being happy!(:

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No it isnt wrong i was with my ex for 13months did the same after four months after he broke up i was laughing i just wish i had a shoulder to lay on still but thats why you have friends

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its not wrong and the plus side is that you are both still friends

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no its just that you finally got over it

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Love it bro

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Honestly, our culture makes relationships seem like life and death, but sometimes it's not that way and that's ok. Just be careful you aren't still hoping and attached because you guys are still friends...you want to move on into the future.

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no , some people just better as frends

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