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I like her and I have told her now what?

told her this "what do you think about us? Because I think your great" she said " I think your nice and sweet guy but I am not looking for a relationship right now just friends hanging out is cool with me then she said she has been single for a 2 years I've gotten use to it' then she said I am just scared to be with someone. Then she asked me " what do you think? I told her what I thought about her. Now she is asking me about past relationships and how they ended and she is telling me about her past relationships and told me what she thought about me and we agreed that we would hang out soon. Then we continued our conversation. I am confused wouldn't she stop talking to me after I told her? Should I stay hopeful or forget about it.

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You have probably already been friendzoned.

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Thanks for the answer.
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haha maybe not. friendzone is escapable if yoour smart.
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wait. dont push it. most often pushing it will seem desperate.

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Thanks for the answer.
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Anything else you suggest I do?
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well definitely show interest. if you see her smile at you, smile back, laugh when she laughs. find what shes into and try your best to make her laugh. at worst, what im suggesting will make you best friends..
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Now should I continue to text her? Because we normally text everyday or every other day sometimes she will text me first and that has started to become more often or I will text her first. Should I still do this?
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yes. but try not to mention the asking out type stuff. it'll become awkward.
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If her response was positive buy her flowers.

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When I told her she said she didn't want a relationship but I don't know what too think. Her answer is very confusing to me.
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flowers are over rated. they die, as will love if not nurtured
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She's seems like a very nice girl it does not matter if your in the friend zone for a while. Trust me it's better to start off as friends then to jump into a relationship with a person you barely know. Give her sometime and next time she will be askin you out :]

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well if youre friends, dating could make it easier or it could make it awkward
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Thanks for the answer. Now should I continue to text her? Because we normally text everyday or every other day sometimes she will text me first and that has started to become more often or I will text her first. Should I still do this?
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yea don't make it seem weird or out of place but it's probably going to take sometime to get used to
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Not everybody that you "like" is going to like you back. But if you persist and push the matter, she will become annoyed with you and perhaps tell other girls to avoid you. Let it go. Look for someone else; believe it or not there's always someone else.

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Thanks for the answer. Now should I continue to text her? Because we normally text everyday or every other day sometimes she will text me first and that has started to become more often or I will text her first. Should I still do this?
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If this is a normal friendship thing, sure. Just drop the "girlfriend" part; she is now a friend who happens to be a friend unless SHE hints she wants something else.
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like the d
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*happens to be a girl
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haha
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