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My best friend Chase hates his life because some people call him fat and he wants to KILL himself! Help me I've tryed giving him advice but he dos'nt believe me. HELP! ASAP!!

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TRUST ME tell him that other people just think they are perfect AND NOBODY IS AND HE IS AMAZING FRIEND and you don't want him to even think about him dead I REALLY HOPE This helps and i hope he feels better :)

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tell him Jesus loves him.

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Thank you I'll try that
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yeah, that will work...... "Hey Chase cheer up, a dead guy, whose legitimacy it questionable, loves you."
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hey, if it worked for a man with no arms and no legs, its worth a try. And besides, Ik Jesus personally. Gby
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Try gathering people like freinds take him out make him feel happy around you guys plan things out ahead of time , he'll be looking forward to it .
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talk to a guidance counselor if you have one at your school

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yea west state 1530 said just tell an adult

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tell why kill your self think of all the people that love and care for you and how would hurt them

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he wants to kill himself because some people call him fat? thats weak. tell him he needs to ignore those people and stop being so dramatic.

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Not helping!
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hes being a dramatic attention seeker.
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Ok, just stop. It's not just being called fat. Again, not helping!
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then you should've put more in the description, just saying.
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Is this the type of advice you give to 11 year olds man ?
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What more do u want me to add?!?!?
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He must understand that people will talk about him all his life,but its the ones that love him that matters the most.

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tell an adult or parent and keep an eye on him at all times because he'll try when he's alone

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What year of age is he ? Is this happening to him at school or is it Family matters ?

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11 and school
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Try going out with him alot more it helps him keep his mind off of everything that's going on at school ,
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Ok thank you
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If only he knew just how unimportant and most likely stupid those people who are insulting him really are. I was picked on when I was a kid, it was hard, I mean really hard. But now I look back at the morons who used to cause me so much fear and panic, and I can't believe that I let losers like that get to me. But at the time, I didn't see that, not clearly anyway.

If he is serious about ending his life, speak to your parents and if need be, to his parents, he needs to talk to someone and trust me, at one point, we all need to talk to someone. If he is just depressed or worried about it, continue being his best friend, you are already doing a great job. And speak to the school authorities about it, he has a right to a good learning environment just as much as anyone else. Good luck!

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Just tell him that people are going talk about him all of his life because they are miserable so they want your life to be miserable too. Like the saying says haters are gonna to hate

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Cleo is right. We will never please everyone so someone will always have something nasty to say. I know how he feels. It's so tough and school age children can be so vicious. But tell him it does get better. And that people do pick on him so no one will notice their flaws. Draws the focus elsewhere. In the scheme of life this is just a small blip. Just tell him he's strong and can muddle through. Just take one day at a time. I promise that the life after school is wonderful. He'll be able to pick his own friends. People who will validate him. Good luck and God bless you both.

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He needs to know that he's better than them

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Tell him to stay strong dont worry about what people say love yourself I'm a big guy it's ok be proud JESUS loves him and so do I be strong my brother

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Being fat can be solved. Diets I hear work well. I plan on losing 50 pounds with summer, and I lost 10 in two days. If he really feels like they're right (they have no right to say this anyway) then he can try dieting, calorie counters and cutting back on junk food.

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How did you loose 10 pounds in two day I wanna know
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Not the healthy way. I was sick. And not eating because I was sleeping. Don't try it.
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Tell him your jealous if his life

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Tell him he's loved by so many people would he want to see all his loved ones suffer because he made a poor choice? :[ tell him I hope he feels better

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You need to tell his parents, and do it right now! You can only be his friend, but his parents can keep him safe!

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tell him jesus loves him for him and that it dosent matter what the world says

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fat? that's it? who cares- be nice he'll find someone that'll make him feel amazing- besides n 50 years almost everyone in your class will be overweight and I am sure they will not call him fat- because they'll be fat-er

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tell him people laugh at you because you are different so u should laugh at them because they are all the same. Tell him not to be sad of being fat because there are many people in this world who cant even walk or run or talk or do whatever you are able to do. So tell him he is precious that god has made you in such a way that everyone looks at him. Encourage him to join a gymnasium .

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T ell him looks dont matter its what its in the inside does and some day a girl will support him and try to help him lose weight

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tell him how much he matters, and how much he means to you and other people. He needs to be reminded of how much he is loved and that the people bullying him are shallow jerks, and if you truly find love, all they will ever see in you is beauty, no matter what.

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Tell his parents ASAP tell him you love him (as a friend) and if he killed himself he would never live his life like he should. keep an eye on him and tell him God created us how he wanted us to look. I have had problem like he has but I think about the future and if I died young I would never have a kid or grandchildren and never find a husband

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Tie him to something and make him listen to "Requiem for a Dream" while you tell him why he shouldn't kill himself

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Tell him not to give in but to keep on moving

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