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Why can't i ever find a special girl for me?

a lot of girls iv dated have cheated on me or treated me bad. i havent dated in 7 months and i just feel lonely and alone

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If you're not happy by yourself you're not going to be happy with someone else. You have to make yourself happy first. Being alone doesn't mean being lonely.

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i think in a different way, maybe if we are not happy with others, we can't be happy with ourselves. a fair living environment is important for all of us to be happy. when a living environment is not fair, there will be a lot of conflicts here and there which will make us not happy.
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You are right, Sexy. Happiness comes from within. When we aren't happy within ourselves, how can someone else be happy with us?
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Exactly Punk. If you can't love yourself you can't expect someone else to.
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yes, but only when we are loved by others can we love ourselves, it is a circle.
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you can't love yourself if others only give you hate from when you were born.
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because you were never able to believe that you yourself were important, and you never will until others start to give you love and tell you that you should be treated well.
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That's backwards thinking. If you don't truly love yourself you really can't expect someone else to.
Your thinking puts happiness dependent on someone else to make it so. Completely wrong way of thinking and feeling. Ask a professional.
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That's right, SS! It's actually the opposite. Love comes from within. Then works outward.
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Very simply true.
Also, unless you do love yourself you're not truly capable of loving another person. Unconditionally or otherwise.
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Maybe you aren't looking in the right places. :)

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iv looked its just now a days girls want guys with swag skinny jeans skinny boys im not like that
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I don't know what girls you've been talking to, but I certainly don't think that way.
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well you seem like a good girl plus your a christian which is a good thing because i am to
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That's great! I can tell you've been reading my profile page.lol
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oh lol yeah i did mines wacky i tried to sound fun lol
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You do sound fun! :D
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lol so how oldare you?
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I was born September of 1990. Do the math. lol ;)
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ohhh well then your my age haha
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lol I guess!
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im 22 i was born in 1990 also
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What a great year that was! It produced two awesome people. lol jk XD
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i know right lol maybe they were meant for each other you never know lol
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Hmmm.....interesting thought.
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X) well its nice to think about it
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Perhaps... that would make an odd love story, meeting on Ask.com...lol
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haha yeah that would be odd but sweet lol you seem pretty also :)
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Thanks! :) But how can a person ''seem'' pretty? :)
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okay you are pretty even tho your picture is tiny lol
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Haha thank you again! :) Yeah I wish the pictures could be bigger.
You're a nice looking guy as far as I can see...cool sun glasses! lol ;)
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i have diffrent looks but iwear glasses haha and thank you. so do you have anything other then ask like facebook or yahoo where we could take more ;)
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Your welcome!

I don't have facebook. I do have yahoo, but I don't know if I want to give out my email.
We just met! lol So if you want to keep talking to me it will have to be on Ask for now. :)
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its okay and i will i promise
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You will huh? lol
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yesss lol i like you so far
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I think I like you too. So far! :) Hehe
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;) ur a cutie pie
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lol How am I supposed to respond to that?! You are going to make me blush. :P
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lol well you are and i like pie so its a good thing ;)
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I can bake pies....lol
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Thanks! :D
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lol well i like youbetter so i will eat your kind of pie yum pie lol
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You are so weird! lol But sweet. :)
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lol im nit weird haha
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lol XD Prove it! lol
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hmm your a beautiful lady ;)
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Nice. lol :)
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;) im glad i meet you on ask lol
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I'm glad I met you too.:)
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well thank you :D
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Sure! :)
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yay lol
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Yay!!! XD
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So....what time is it where you are? :)
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it is 3:20 and you?
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3:22am Looks like we are in the same time zone.
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thats so cool lol
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Haha why? lol
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idk lol i just think its cool
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Well me too! Very cool! lol
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;) i like your hair
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Well thanks! I like my hair too. :P lol
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i dont have non haha :P
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Really? Are you naturally bald or do you just shave your head? lol
Sorry I just had to ask! :P
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no my hair gets long if i let it grow long and thick and yes i have to shave it lol
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Oh I see. :)

Listen, I really need to go to bed now! lol
Talking to you tonight was wonderful and I hope we can do it again soon! :D
So, goodnight sammy30! Sleep well. :) You made me smile tonight. lol
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call me sam thats my name :)and im glad i did so did you talk to you tomorro and good morning lol
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Haha Ok Sam, I don't know if I'll be on tomorrow but whenever I'm on again I'll look for you. :) My name is Amanda. Good morning to you! Bye for now! :D
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Shell come along...and don't try TOO hard to get a gf, you might jinx it. Let love find you.

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you have to keep searching for the right one in case.

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She will come when the time is right :)

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Hey = )
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Sam just go do things you like enjoy yourself don't let a girl determine your happiness.... You cant rush love

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Dude, it's like this. Be yourself, no matter what. If she thinks you are worth it, she'll be worth it. Good Luck!

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You got that right.
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I know it's true. I've spend too much time fighting to be myself, why should I change just to please someone else?
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exactly
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More people should think like us.
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That's what I reckon. You & I should keep telling it how it is & start our revolution. its been in my heart for at least 10 yrs. But I'm somewhat scared.
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