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What does " Revenge is a dish best served cold " Mean ?

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Cold means harsh or cruel. So "Revenge is a dish best served cold." Means you should get revenge in the most cruel or painful way.

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"Best served cold" means don't plot your revenge in the heat of your anger. Wait until you've cooled down when your emotional thinking won't get you into trouble.

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Star , good one Cj . An Italian favorite :)
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CJ-I pressed "helpful" so you will get a good vote for your great answer. Hopefully the asker will press "helpful" too. ;-)
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Also means strike when least expected taking them by surprise.
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Hey, CJ. Hope all is well.
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You too howlin :)
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Thats a great quote that I haven't heard before.
I like "Success Is The Best Revenge"
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I would have took yours to mean if you have been wronged then just be impassive and let the wheels of justice roll out the fair allegations, findings and consequences.
I don't think being cruel or harsh comes into it, just be procedural.

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You're welcome,
think carefully,
revenge is very draining and often blows up in the face of the revenger.
Perhaps better to go forward, become the well known potential you have and let your decency and integrity speak for itself.
The one deserving revenge will gradually work themself into isolation if they continue unfair acts.
I know you won't go "cruel or harsh".
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I agree with the second part of Cjkenkel's answer. In the contexts that I've heard it before, I get the impression that it means to do it a substantial amount of time after the event occurred. I think the intention of that is to take A LOT more time to think about the best possible way to go about it, for maximum impact. I have generally got the impression that it would be done after a year or more. But I suppose it depends on each situation. I think also if you leave it for a long time, you get to incorporate the 'get you when you least expect it' thing in at the same time. I've personally never bothered to cook up some revenge scheme, but whenever I get the urge, the 'best served cold' idea always comes to mind. I like the thought of maximum impact, over instant gratification.

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This is a saying in some great American movies in the last 5 years. Along with what CJ said, it can also mean that to take revenge on someone, you have to make yourself "cold ", meaning unfeeling or without emotion, for if you had the proper feelings, your ability to carry out the revengeful act to your best ability would be harder to do. Serving "it" cold can have the meaning that you would do the revenge without a conscience and walk away from the act without any feeling of remorse... and not lose a wink of sleep over it.

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u cant cook revenge lol XD

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As in when you want to have revenge on someone, you wouldn't do it nicely; that defeats the purpose. Cold as in harsh an mean, that way revenge is worth it.
If someone tripped you on purpose, you might want to get them back. You wouldn't do it by buying them a teddy bear, would you? Instead you'd make it cruel, like telling his crush embarrassing things about him that "did" happen.

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What @Cjkenkel said, brilliant answer :)

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