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How do you know if you found the right one, for the rest of your life?

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You will know if you found the right one when you cannot picture your life without him/her. When you also go through a lot together and find that there are no obstacles to kill the flame of love, then you will know that you have found the one you will spend your life together for a long time.

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thank you, I think I have.
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Good for you descentorigin. All the best.
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thank you, and you as well.
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Thanks for that now I know he is the one for me.
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When you mess up and they come back

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You just know

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I believe we don't know till it ends. Often the ones you thought were the best ones to have in your life are the least respectful of you. You just move on & try not to make the same mistakes again. That's life in my experience.
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That's what the meaning of you live & learn means.
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Your wrong your question was how do you know in other words how do you is he or she is your soulmate.... That wasn't your soulmate and its not live and waste years if your life with the wrong person you chose the wrong one and the right soulmate is somebody that you meet or see and your heart goes a million beats a hour you get nervous because you don't want screw it up its a feeling tingly feeling you just know its her or him
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Well then there must be a lot of soulmates for each person cos I guarantee you people think it more than once in their lifetime only to find their wrong.
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I agree with VincentA84

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Once you don't have to ask yourself or anyone else that question, you will know.

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People like you think they know it all. just saying
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Really? And you know this about me how?
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funny didn't I just say the same to you. you suck at life
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Do you gave any idea what you're talking about? I sure don't but I admit I am really curious. Did you take the answer I gave to this question as an insult. I absolutely did not mean it in that way. I just meant the words I said. I just meant you will know fur sure when you don't ask yourself that question. While you certainly don't have to agree with my answer, I don't get what's so wrong as to be insulting.
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perfectly honest i don't care
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Got it!!!! You just like to throw bombs . I'm sorry. I didn't realize I was speaking to a child.
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when you feel warm and fuzzy inside and you're always thinking about this person even when you're not with him

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BERIOlDTk2M <answers how do you know someones the one perfectly

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I don't know if there really is an answer to that question. I think finding the right person is pure luck. Some find it First time & others spend their life trying to find the right partner that enhances their life only to find their life only becomes more difficult with the wrong partner. I say be happy & surround yourself with great friends. That is what truly matters. Count on no one to be responsible for your happiness. Allow no one to control your life. That is your responsibility & you will never let yourself down or disappoint your hopes & expectations. You also need a good dog in your life. They love you no matter what & are what loyalty is all about. They willingly segregate themselves from their own kind to spend their life with you.

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I really liked your answer. very thoughtful.
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Thanks. Needless to say after one marriage & 35 years of dating/relationships this is the conclusion I have come too. I'm much happier looking after my own happiness & there is no bitterness over no Mr right in my life. It just works for me. & yes I have a wonderful dog that is my constant companion.
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you mean to say the right one can be an animal like a dog....that explains why i cant find myself a girlfriend...i need to find a dog!! :D
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I mean you will never be lonely with a good dog to accompany you on walks, to greet you at the door, a dogs dedication is purely to be by your side & please you & animals can be better friends than a lot of humans.
Without a dog I would be lonely, without a man in my life I can still have a happy life. That's all I'm saying.
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The "right one" of what? Car? I'm pretty sure cars don't last for an entire human's lifetime.

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almost funny
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Try love of your life.
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You know you have found the right person when you are willing to do anything for them but they don't ask for anything. When they will do anything for you but you don't ask for anything. When you each have a flitter in your soul that only the other can qualm. When you are sick and he is willing to hold your hair back. When he wants to watch the game and you call his best buddy to come watch it with him. When you get on each others last nerve and think this is something we will laugh with our kids/friends about.

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You can't. Besides, why are you asking this question? Do you have strong feelings for more than one person? Then you're indecisive. If not, then you have a fear of commitment. You can't *know* if there even *is* a "right one". Can you unconditionally commit to making this other person's life better? If not, then it's not true love. That doesn't mean you throw it away, but you recognize it for what it is.

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There are many ways to know if He/She is The One. Follow your heart, that's most likely the best choice.

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Listen to the voice in your head. That speaks common sense & wisdom. It's called your conscious. Your heart wears rose colored glasses so I would never trust my heart alone. I admire my friends that are truly happy with their partners but I also believe some of us aren't so lucky, I can cope with that. We are all responsible for our own happiness & I can have that even if the elusive Mr right hasnt & doesnt step into my life
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You can't know. You can't read the other person's mind. The other person could be a much better or worse person than they appear to be. Unfortunately we have to rely on gut feeling and past behavior to judge people. You can feel like you know, but you can never really know, even if they show themselves to be a perfect match for 80 years. Really all that matters is that you both meet each others needs and don't cause each other to much emotional trauma.

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Another realist like myself. Thankyou for that. Some of us realize it takes more than just being the best person we can be to find a kindred spirit to share our life with.
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If you are asking yourself "is he/she the one?" its quite likely they are not. Being with someone for the rest of your life is a heavy thing...it's an important thing. Life long partnership takes commitment, selflessness, determination, perseverance and forgiveness. It is a journey, not for the faint of heart. I encourage you to take time to learn about yourself. To be honest with yourself about your strengths and weaknesses and to love and accept yourself completely. Self love, confidence, and inner peace will open doors to opportunity you never knew existed. That's where you will find "the one"

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