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TheForbiddenFollower: 3 months ago

Was i being a bully?

so i was on an app on my ipod (ifunny, it just pictures and people like and comment on them)anyway there was a pic,about 10 people commented on it. i was near the bottom comment (go by order of date) and this chick who was 2ed comment randomly commented saying i was ugly (who does this, lol?)i was taken by surprise, cuz the picture had nothing to do with her, nor did my comment, nor did any body else comment. we had a little argument (no cursing it was calm)and her latest comment? i am pathetic and am so ugly that i have to bully people to feel better-...she commented first, how am i the bully?

this never really happen to me before, lol, like yeah some people called me ugly before (i know i look hideous to some people, but i feel beautiful, so who cares, right, plus other people say im beautiful, and mean it, so i know i am)anyway, does she really think i am bullying her? i dont feel like the bully.i mean sure i made fun of her (she was ugly to me, not the type of girl i would say is hot,cute,etc), but she started.am i a bully in this case?

we kept the argument about looks...she kept saying she is beautiful and i kept having decent comebacks...choice is yours guys..bully or not?

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Shane8592: 3 months ago | Last edited at 11:01PM on 2/1/2013

Hm well you should be carefully what you say to people I remember mean things people have said and these things happened years ago who knows someone else could have said the same thing you said to this person .They may start to think its true maybe you got to this person.For example I happen to get bullied because i was chubby the saddest thing is I let it get to me. So I started working out I'm kinda glade they did because now I'm in good shape now and a stronger person and the girls that used to make fun would ask me if I had a gf . Just be careful what you say words hurt more than physical pain. Just be above the B.S

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TheForbiddenFollower: 3 months ago

but she started..if she doesnt want to get hurt then dont call random people ugly...if she didnt call me ugly i would never have said anything to her..

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Shane8592: 3 months ago

I understand but you know your not ugly so why let it bug you. I'm not saying your wrong because you had every right to defend yourself , but An argument is like a war. You don't have to win every battle to win the war sure if you do you feel better. Trust me if you go thorough life not caring what people think about you you'll feel some much more happier day to day because you know there's people like friends and family that know what you really are.

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tic_tac: 3 months ago

That girl was just stupid.

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TheForbiddenFollower: 3 months ago

me, being a bully..please, im way to nice, lol :) thanks :)

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Your_Little_Helper: 3 months ago

Maybe she mistaken you as someone else?...

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TheForbiddenFollower: 3 months ago

there can only be one of me :P
lmfao...i hope so, but thats embarrassing if she did, lol

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Your_Little_Helper: 3 months ago

Just try to explain it to her nicely...

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TheForbiddenFollower: 3 months ago

ok, after her next reply i will just be like this is stupid and pointless and lets just stop..because it kind of is, to me anyway, i dont know about her

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Your_Little_Helper: 3 months ago

don't say stupid... Just say something like "I think you have me mistaken with someone else"... She is pretty upset about something... Better to be gentle...

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TheForbiddenFollower: 3 months ago

ok, i will me mature... :)

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CG_45: 3 months ago

hi

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Your_Little_Helper: 3 months ago

Me?... Hi?...

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CG_45: 3 months ago

no i was talking to theforbiddenfollower

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aristocat: 3 months ago

Not a bully.

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TheForbiddenFollower: 3 months ago

thanks :)
i dont feel like one neither :P

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SydneyGoose: 3 months ago

NOT, a bully bro, not a bully

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