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MisterGerdes
MisterGerdes: 4 months ago via Android

Please help, girlfriend situation...

Ok, so I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months. I can't leave her, she always says "I can't live without you" but recently, I've had a crush on another girl who likes me... What do I do?????

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xoxolovemusic
xoxolovemusic: 4 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 11:21PM on 2/1/2013

Relationships in teen years dont usually last. Be young and wild and free while you still can.

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newbuddah13
newbuddah13: 4 months ago via iPhone

Your 14. The 2 of you will break up eventually. You will probably be with this new girl for a year or less also. At your age its best to kind of date around and learn what actual relationships are.

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wirenut623: 4 months ago via iPhone
Good response. Succinct and to the point with no B. S.
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jacqui607
jacqui607: 4 months ago via iPhone

3 months!! Is nothing!!! She can't say those things to u it's so wrong! U need to say that u want space and she needs to seek counselling! U shouldn't stay in a relationship out of guilt in the end ur wasting both ur time and its destined to fail!

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collegequestions14
collegequestions14: 4 months ago

You're young and shouldn't put so much pressure on yourself. If you like someone else but you aren't a hundred percent sure you want to break it off then you should tell her you want to take a break and just have some time to think. Honestly, if your girlfriend feels that strongly after three months she may have some codependency issues which isn't healthy. Just be really nice, compassionate, and tell her the truth, and hopefully it will all work out. If she does anything extreme like threaten her life, you need to tell her parents and your parents so she can be helped. Best of luck

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Caitieboo
Caitieboo: 4 months ago via Android

Just freaking tell the chick. And figure out who you like more. And 3months are you joking and she is talking like that after 2yrs with my boyfriend he just started talking like that. But just do figure out who you like more.

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RandomChick123
RandomChick123: 4 months ago via iPhone

If she says stuff like I can't live without you should probably just saying that there's no way that's actually true trust me I know this from past experience. I've relationships where the guy say stuff like I love you so much I can't live without you and the relationship ended after couple months that's just how relationships are when your teenager if you don't like her don't waste your time on her she just likes you so she says stuff like that I know how hard it is to break up with someone but you will feel much better if you are with the person you truly love

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lexeybennett
lexeybennett: 4 months ago via iPhone

Tell the girlfriend sorry but it's i stay with you and like another girl or not stay with you and like the sane girl.

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