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Should I tell my girlfriend what her friends said about her? :(

So valentines day is coming up and I was short of a gift idea for my gf, so yesterday I asked her friends after school if she had her eye on something. From one of them I got, "get the freak a paper bag for her head."all the others laughed and agreed with it. That was so mean! Then a lot more insults were passed about my girl :( I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I think she should know who these brats really are since she invests so much time with them. Should I tell her?

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I think you should tell her. She's worth so much more and doesn't deserve to have friends like that. But first, I think you should find out if they were joking. If they weren't, help her find better friends.

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Buttonz_again

Yeah you should tell her.

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aLwAyZhAvEnXoXo

Yes. Because she needs to know that they aren't true friends. Yes she might be hurt for a while but she will find other and better friends :)

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YES!!!!! Tell her that you really care for her and that your not jealous and want her to stop hanging out with them or anything but if people treat her like that...maybe she shouldn't be their friend

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Don't tell her, u just don't wanna hurt her feelings. But you can tell her that they said that about someone else and that you don't want her getting hurt by hanging out with them. Comment if u need more, good luck! :D

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I think you should tell her.

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I think you should. I would want to know who my fake friends are.

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FunnyLittleFrog

She should know if her friends are mean. But wait until after Valentine's Day and make it extra special for her. They are probably jealous.

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You should. But you need some evidences to approve your voice. Otherwise, she might be pissed up with you.

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Yes, she deserves to know.

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MBrooke15

Yessss!! they wanna be b****** then they deserve it

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Do you really want to be the messenger in this mess ?

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Not really...But I don't want her being led on...
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but honeslty in high school they're always gonna be bitch^ness around gurls talking behind our backs ... it always happens ... she could be done with all of her friends and then she'll be co-dependant on you do you really want that - if it happens again maybe give her a hint but i would think about it also
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She doesn't have any 'friends' other than them and I have heard from other people those girls are nasty. I don't really mind her being co-dependent on me if that would make her happy. I love her. Hmm...what do you think? Do you think she'll be mad at me when she finds out for herself if I didn't tell her?
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i think that when you said she doesnt have any more friends that's exaclty it ... she will be alone because of YOU ( well technically not you but if you would keep your mouth shut everything would be fine ) ... us we always get upset at the messenger and as a girl i'm sure she knows cause we always know who's fake and who's real - and you would mind cause when you would want to watch the superbowl on a guy's night .. she'll be right right there ruining your social party
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Yes you should tell her, because these people are not friends...

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yeah you should tell her drew <3 if she finds out that her so called friends told you that stuff and you didnt tell your gf she will be mad at you and will feel really sad....it will hurt her feelings but just be there for her and comfort her

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talk is cheap

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