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Is lying deal breaker in a relationship?

My BF has a girl pregnant from before we met. He tried to date her but she wasn't interested & moved 10hours away so they never see each other but they talk & he sends $. I'm moving to China in 7 months anyway &but I'm always catching him in lies that have to do w/ his relationship w/ her. He treats me well but how can I trust him?

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If he's a habitual liar than yes, it's a deal breaker. You can have love without trust. Liars also cheat and steal.
Ditch his lying azz before his dishonesty comes back and bites YOU.

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Your answer is my favorite!
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Yes, trust is they key.
No trust = nothing.(:

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cut off his leg and make a taco hes a noob and a lier

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Screw someone else!! See how he likes it

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yes. dump the liar.

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Constant liar? Leave him.

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It is in my book. Period

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If you, on the other hand, acted like he did,then I'm sure he's going to get angry and maybe break up with you. In my opinion, both boyfriend and girlfriend are equal in a relationship and no one should get a better treatment than the other. If he's doing this to you, then you're free to break up with him.
Of course, people make mistakes all the time.

Go and have a long talk to your boyfriend.

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Time and distance will tell. He has to support his child so yes he will be in contact with her.

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Lying , cheating, abuse of any kind they are all deal breakers

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lying for the good cause is SOMETIMES more worth than a truth that devastates the whole relationship...

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