My hubby & I are seeing a therapist for relationship counselling, I am experiencing transference toward my therapist and its intense
In our sessions Ive noticed him many times looking my way whilst listening to my husband His glances have puzzled me, little smiles, looks away quickly when I notice him looking at me. I had to go in to collect a letter.a few days ago He placed my chair close to his we spoke about anything & everything this was not a session though. I was very comfortable with him, suddenly he said to me " Im going to be blunt with you its understandable if you decide to leave your husband" this took me aback for the last few months in therapy he has been drumming in to us that we need to make this marriage work.I suddenly became aware that every time he looked at me his looks lingered longer & longer, I panicked &felt uncomfortable, about what may happen I cant betray my husband or implicate myself in anything I may regret. I made an excuse to leave his office.My feelings were so intense. If I tell him about the transference he may tell me about his feelings Im not prepared to deal with this I dont know if I would be strong enough to walk away.