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Mexican_hawtie16

I'm in a love triangle with two guys, and I really need some advice, can anyone help?

2 weeks ago i started dating this guy in my grade, and everything was perfectly fine. he said he loved me, and i told him i loved him, which was mistake because i just liked him. Now he barely talks to me, and claims he's always busy and/or playing video games.. i also have a friend, that i was crushing on for seven months.. He says he doesnt want to get to close to me (relationship wise) because he doesnt trust himself, but a few days ago i told him i rlly liked him and then we started acting differently around each other, we would cuddle and make out lol, and he would call me babe and sweetie but we arent dating, and now i feel like im cheating on the other guy even though im not dating the other guy.. I rlly like the guy im dating, but i love the other one.. Im to scared to break up with the guy im dating now because he got hurt before.. what should i do?

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You sound like a bunch of kids playing adults games, why not just be kids for the time being, you have your whole life to be adults, don't rush it, you don't even realize what love is yet or what it means...

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Break up with one of them b4 you lose both of them.

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Which one do you care for most? choose that one

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How do you know? Lom
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* lol
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how do i know what?
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You said she was 12..?
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Just think to yourself...Who is the best for me?...Who do I really love?...Who do I think loves me more?...etc.

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bigpete121

Make them fight each other?

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Go watch the movie Savages. That will help you:).

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Omg!! Really? Tell her to watch that movie! Great advice! Lol!!!
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I thought it was legitimate advice.
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you are cheating on him......just because you aren't going out with the second guy you're still fooling around with him. I kinda hope your boyfriend finds out and breaks up with you, but that's just me, and seriously in love after 2 weeks?

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thats what im saying. if you look at her other questions theres another boy too
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i like that you agree with me and so i'm going to warn you now...i'll probably follow you
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I'd say break up with the guy you're dating. If he's too "busy" to talk to his own girlfriend then there's something wrong. He might just be using you for bragging rights or something. Whereas the other guy is really close to you and cuddles and makes out with you and stuff. You can't keep both, though, that's for sure. Hope I helped! :)

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Simple, the guy u r dating is ignoring u and the guy u like better isn't? Break up with the guy u r dating and go with the other. U can't stay in a relationship just because he has been hurt before. This is gonna sound harsh but ppl get hurt over and over again in life, they pick themselves up and carry on. Be gentle and tell him he's a nice guy but you r feeling he is distancing himself from u and its time for u both to go your own way. Good luck

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Lol ditch one and if the one u dont ditch doesnt work out ditch and crawl bk to the other and beg for forgiveness. Or do them both

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You're just hormoney. You're not in love with either one of them. Date the one you like more. Don't hurt the other one. You did cheat on the one you were dating, and that's not okay. Never hurt anyone like that. No one deserves to be cheated on. You're not he only one who did something wrong, he should've made time for his girlfriend. Go with the guy that cares about you. Good luck. :)

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WOW! you sound so great, cheating on your boyfriend with some other guy. If your going to be a terrible girlfriend just break up with the guy, he deserves better than you...

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You're 15 and already playing "games". You are the reason I give up hope for the next generation. You'll all end up with STDs, poor morals poor ethics and pregnant by 16.

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Harsh truth! I love it!
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That about sums it up...)
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You are definitely cheating even if he didn't officially ask you out, you are still doing things that couples do when they are dating. I would tell the guy you're with that it's not working out and let him know that you will be there for him even though you can't be there as his girlfriend and as for the other guy, he obviously knew you were dating someone when he kissed you so I dont think he has much respect for you or you're boyfriend. You may think you love him but that's a strong word. You need to stay away from the word love and not say it when you don't mean it. And just be free and young and keep them both as friends.

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