I'm not sure if your girlfriend has a wife or if you have a girlfriend and a wife. But whatever is going on there, get her/them a gift. No matter if she/they said not to. And if you give it to her and she says she has nothing for you then instead of making her feel bad, tell her that you just couldn't resist getting her something because its the least you could do for all she does for you. Lol and dont you dare ever listen to another women when she says she doesn't want a valentines gift! Lol at least get something small.