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Is it weird that a 19 yr old guy is with a 14 yr old girl?

so my ex says he has thought about me everyday since we broke up, which was 2 years ago. and I want to go back to him but idk if its right that I'm dating a 19 yr old and the bad thing is is that he doesn't live close to me :( please help and give me advice?

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Not only weird but it's ILLEGAL, assuming you're having sex. Which you probably are, I mean what else would a 19 year old do with a 14 year old? What are you gonna talk about, what do you even have in common? Whether or not you're having sex, if you care about this person you should STAY AWAY because you could really ruin their life if people found out about the relationship.

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I haven't even met him so no we are not having sex and I won't let him touch me that way. But thanks anyways
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You haven't met him and you tell people that you're going out?? Just end it, the whole thing is a waste of time.
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I never said we are dating right now. We dated 2 yrs ago and now he wants to date me again..
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It's illegal, and disgusting.

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Love is love

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Lol, they are DEFINITELY not in love!
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It's not just wierd, its against the law!!!!

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He is looking for jail time if it is more then just talking. Look for someone closer to your age

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Yeah you are probably right.. Thanks!
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You're welcome good luck
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Well considering its illegal you need to try to stay away because it might make that persons life go down the drain.

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Not weird. Gross and illegal!!!

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It's illegal for one thing.. But aside from that, a fourteen year old is not a mature person. And I'm talking physically matured. The nineteen year old knows this and is taking advantage. It's disgusting.

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I don't really find it gross... But it is slightly weird. If you really love her though, why not?

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Wait at least four years.

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