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Why do men cheat on the women of there dreams?

why does men cheat on the good women already in there life, an then look around an be like where is the women of my dreams, or try an look for the women of there dreams when there sitting right in front of them. I dont understand why they ever cheated in the first place then

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Because the woman of their dreams is NOT really in front of them. Just because he is YOUR dream guy... doesnt mean you are his dream girl
Everyone cheats... and everyone has different reasons for it.

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Your new picture is too funny :D
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thanx
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Been married almost 23 years. Never cheated. Had relationships prior to being with the man that is my husband, never cheated then. Believe it or not I'm hardly the only one .
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I have never cheated either..... Been cheated on though.
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cause they like some one ealys usely

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That is not the woman of their dreams. That woman needs to find a different man!

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If men (or women) don't get what they want, need and expect from home, they go elsewhere. Pure and simple. And some are just pigs who think they deserve more than they are getting.

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We do? Guess that means I am in trouble. I haven't felt such a need to cheat.

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Statistically speaking, men and women cheat on each other about the same. Cheating can be caused by many things, such as a lack of intimacy in the current relationship, the need to satisfy a sexual addiction, or it can even be caused by insecurities about oneself.

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I don't know why either, but a cheater's lack of morals is unrespectable.

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Not all men are like that...

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No , I certainly am not ! You're right !
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Star thank you Phlorence ;)
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You're absolutely right Phlorence, and as usual you earned your star!
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I've been married to the woman of my dreams for 34 years and have never had any reason to cheat on her ! A real person of your dreams is just that ! Once you've actually found one , then you don't have any reason to cheat !

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Thank you!!!! For me it's been nearly 23 years. I've never felt the need to cheat either. Seems to me when a person says "everyone cheats", there's a good chance that, that person cheats.
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I think you have a good valid point !
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Some guys think with their other head, not so smart

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Yep ! You can't let the little head tell the big head what to do !
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There is a little thing you gotta know before saying why do they cheat on each other and that is once you make the baby, its time reality hit you in the face. Its not whose in your dreams its weather if of the couple can support each other in life. You know Life is not a Fantasy.

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In today's days, love now is a fantasy. When reality hits! That's when the idea of abortion, cheating, drinking hits.
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There are lots of reasons. There's the challenge of getting away with it, the urge to sow our oats, wanting to try something new, addicted to sex, they don't think cheating is that big of a deal since it's just sex, and I can keep going. If you really want to know ask the guy, but he might not even know.

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You can read this and it can help you to find the answer.

http://www.ask.com/answers/286882241/why-do-men-cheat

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in the begginig is the woman of our dreams, after a couple of month they become a nightmare. i hope that answers your question

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The same reason some women cheat on the "men of their dreams"

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that question has been asked for years ... no good answer to date ...

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I believe no one can cheat on the true love of his/her life.

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because they dont appreciate what they have now and when it's gone they start to regret , just for knowing you worth someone better .

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Sometimes it makes a man feel more masculine or controlling, due to the fact that they have something that you want. Which is a dirty little secret that only they and their partner have the ability to share with you. Or a full relationship, which makes the dream of being in complete control even more real, because they are the only one who can make themselves commit to making you their only lover. Women do this to and usually for the same reason, except that the masculinity is replaced with manipulation and feminine charm.

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Variety, something new, men like a challenge (the hunt) The excitement of possibly getting caught, or just being secretive. I've heard this excuse countless times, cop-out, rationalize or whatever you choose to call it but; Their wives are "normal" ho hum sex, they're also the mother of their children. They kiss their children, so they'd never want to "put anything" in their mouths because it would be like their kids "had something " in their mouths. They can treat other women like trash I suppose (for lack of a better word) Because they love & respect their wives they'd never make them do "things"

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Because he's dreaming.

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I believe she wouldn't really be the women of his dreams. Maybe she was lead to believe she was. If you really really love someone wouldn't you protect that relationship at all costs? The hurt, possibility of losing that person would overrule. If you have what you want and need you look no further. Something is lacking. Revenge, lack of communication, intimacy, fun, addiction, emotional aspect, it's something, or plain and simple, lack of real love.

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Because the majority of mean are dogs! There are a 'handful' of good ones out there..don't waste your time on the ones who aren't worth it.

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Ya! Bud not all i have my dream lady for 24 years since16 yr never needed to some time we see the green grass on the other side but all we knead is to water ours. So you nead to respect your self and move on! And find your's not everybody's !lol hope it helps

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Cause their f... Stupid

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Because they are greedy and selfish. They are only thinking of what want at the moment. It's their stupidity though, they're really only hurting themselves.

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It all happens when u can't fulfill all his needs and wants , same goes with us women.
Think first was it something u did not give to your man?
Was it something u did?
Was the sex not good?
e.c.t.

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