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I was in Wal-Mart and I came across my daughter's boyfriend buying condoms A LOT of condoms. I had just got off the phone with my daughter who had asked me if she could go out that night and I over reacted and called her back and told her she couldn't go anywhere because her and I and her mother had to have a talk when I get home. I then approached my daughter's boyfriend and asked him if he intended on doing anything he would regret with my daughter, scared of course he told me not to tell my daughter but they weren't for her they were for some other girl! I got home that night to my daughter crying because he had called her and broke up with her! should I still tell my daughter about him cheating? or just forget about it and comfort my daughter. or I could do what I should have done the minute he told me and punched his lights out. I don't want to hurt my daughter anymore I feel like it's my fault she's hurt I don't know if she'll blame me or not. I'm so confused!

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It's not your fault and if he's buying that much condoms he sounds like he's getting ready for a night to remember with more than one girl. If I were you I would tell her that you caught him doing that and I think when you saw him and asked him about what he was doing I think he immediately thought it was over for him and your daughter and probly knew you saw him buying condoms and probly had a plan for a few nights is probly why he broke up with your daughter.

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Dont tell your kid, and then clock the ex on his brain bucket.

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lol my dad would just kill him on the spot :P just for buying condoms that's it for my dad .

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if it hadn't of been in Wal-Mart I probably would have lol
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lol probably my dad is the most intimidating person anyone has ever met ... though i'm 17 and i would like to know if my boyfriend was cheating on me or not because at least i need explanation why it didnt work out - i would feel that it's not me it's honeslty him
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My daughter is 17 too lol Maybe I'll just lock her up in a tower. Jk Jk
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haha :P she's gonna be happy with that ... and at least you'll worry about the jerks .
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I would just comfort your daughter. I am a teenager also, and most girls at might school "get back" with the boyfriend that has cheated on them. If you feel that you have a close relationship with your daughter then you can tell her. I would not punch the boy because he may tell his parents and then they may sue you (I know, it?s retarded).

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yes

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Don't tell your daughter. She will get upset He was going to cheat on her and that he was gonna do... -It- with someone.
Comfort her And when she is okay, Make sure you tell me when he is unconscious in your basement.

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At least your a caring father.comfort her. your daughter needs you.

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the underlying issue here is that you are concerned that your daughter is having sex with the kid.be thankful the kid was buying condoms at least.

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You wait till that kid needs his teeth cleaned, I'm going to take out all his fronts! Silly boys, they'll learn one day not to mess with our daughter's ;)

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maybe you should tell her, what if she finds out that you knew it could lead to more problems. it could not only hurt her and you it could cause her to never trust you a gain. my dad and i have a good relationship if he was you he probably wouldnt hit the guy but he would give him a really good scare and i know for a fact that he would never keep secrets from me. do whats best in your eyes.

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May God give you the answer. Gby.

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Yes because it's better to know the truth. And what if she finds out? She'll be mad bc u didn't tell

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I would tell her because if she finds out then she will be mad at you

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Tell her. He's a loser. She shouldn't waste her time on him

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