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How to ignore when someone annoys you? (hypocrite lying cheating mother)

My mom and dad are both 19 years apart. I know weird. She is a huge hypocrite and has made my life miserable I have attempted a suicide 4 times in the past 3-4 years. I was close, and wish I had gone through It. She always points out my flaws. She makes me do all the work, while her favorite son does nothing. He is 11, she buys him everything he wants even though he doesn't need it. I when I was 11 and he was 7, I would babysit him for 2-3 hours while she went who knows where. Well, anyways my mom is a hypocrite she acts innocent, I don't even know why my dad is with her even though she has been cheating on her for the past 3 years. She thinks I don't know, yet I am always blackmailing her. My brother knows too, I just know it. He acts all quiet if I question him. All he'll do is just snitch and tell her. My mom I don't even want to call her mom, yet she is., always acts better. She talks so much about my dads side of the family. And it annoys me! Because she talks about my cousins, she always wants to know everything. What do I do? I really want to run away.

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Three more years and you move out.Start part time work and find your own place. Life wont be easier, But you will have peace atleast.

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I think you should tell her aout what is going on. If you already tried it then talk to a good friend or any adult you trust good luck!

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Wow, uh... do not kill yourself. Talk to somebody, a friend, a different family member, somebody you know and trust. Do not kill yourself kid, its never worth it and will never be. Seek help. Talk to God. Ask him to help you, if you haven't already it will be the best thing you've ever done... even if you don't realize it at first. Don't kill yourself kid. God bless

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Have you tried talking to your dad? Is there a family member that you could stay with? You should just drop the whole suicide idea and keep in mind that even though it may not seem like it, things will get better. Once you're out of your mom's house you can make your own decisions. I know what it's like to have a mom that sucks. I left home at 15 and have not regretted it for one second even though sometimes it's really tough to be independent. Unless a person has a painful terminal disease, suicide should never be an option.

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Holy crap!! U guys need serious fam counselling!! Sounds brutal and unhealthy!

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I'd talk to your dad about what's going on. He can't do anything to make the situation better if he's kept in the dark about things. I'm sure he would make different choices if he knew the truth. You deserve better and so does your dad and brother! Talk to your dad. I'd usually tell children to stay out of adult situations, but obviously your mother brought you into this situation and now you have to live with it. Telling your dad may be the only way to end the disruptive life style your mother has drug you into! Good luck sweetheart, and PLEASE don't harm yourself because of your mother's selfish destructive choices!

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My step mother was the same. My biological mother went to prison for murder, and her and my dad took me and my sister in. My step mom treated me awful compared to my sister, because I reminded her of my mother. (I look like her). She would try to turn my dad against me, and would always fight with me, and make my sister think I was making stuff up. Then she hit menopause and everything got worse. I have been moved out for a while now, and I only go visit when I want to see my dad. She is still as two faced as ever. But life isn't over just because you have to live with someone who you don't like. People have had it a lot worse, and managed just fine. Deal until your an adult, then leave, make your own life. :)

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Stick it out til you can leave. It'll get better. Take care of yourself and don't be pulled into the drama. Accept that your brother is the fav. Sucks but it is what it is. Focus on you. You are what is most important.

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