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so i have been friends with him for less than a year now and now everytime i forget to text him or don't reply fast enough he'll say R u dead ?! why r u ignoring me !! i've tried contacting you so many times and you never reply !! and he bevomes possesive, he told me that he loved me once and had this sexual dream about me that TOTALLY freaked me out 0.o so how do i tell him nicely to cool it down a little bit ?

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Remind him that you are Russian and leave no witnesses.

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Haha XD
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Tell him exactly that. To cool down a bit, he is coming on to strong. I'm sure he will understand.

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This doesn't sound like a really healthy relationship..but if he's being overly possessive, just tell him that he is, and you don't like it. So long as he backs down after that and respects your wishes it shouldn't be a problem.

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We're not even in a relationship that's the creepy thing :s
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you can't change someone. just let him down easy.

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Be real with the guy. Lay it all out there! He may not even know he is coming on strong or freaking you out. Just let him know what your feeling and how you think things should change

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Tell him yo you r freaking me out

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Go into the witness protection program. Haha just kidding. You want to let him down easy. This guy is a little to attached.

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Lol yeah i need it :P
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Telling him the truth is the best thing to do. Honesty will also let him know your not afraid of telling him the truth. Let him know how you feel.

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Just tell him that you're creeped out, no need to sugar-coat it.

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ugh i have one like that too.:/ its creepy. heres what you do. cut it clean dont talk to him anymore worked for me.

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