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How can i show my partner i love her? I have been with her for 4 years now but she doesnt beleave i love n care for her? Please help!!

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there always a reason why a women after 4 years doesnt believe you love her, maybe you hurt her at some point or lost her trust. talk to her tell her your sorry and even you if you didnt do anything wrong still tell her look babe im sorry for anything iv done to you to cause you pain or hurt. im sorry if i havent been the best i can be for you but please give me a chance to show you how mush i love you and how affectionate i am towards you. hug her give her a kiss buy her a gift.

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marry her !!!

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but affraid she will say no as she doesnt think i love her!?
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You can show her that you love her by being obedient to her. It all shows in how you relate to her, the way you respond when she sends you and how much you listen and obey her instructions. You also need to establish a good communication where you can talk without getting on each other's nerves.

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i do everythink i can for her, deleted my facebook to stop arguements! Im always doing stuff for her, from poping to shop to get her a mag to picking her little one up from school when she ill! not complaining about it as i love doing things for her and making her happy! And im not a person to get angre with her for asking me for favs all the time!
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then tell her "marry me or leave me!" :p

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I guess I would need to know Does she love you? I always thought there was a diff between IN love and Love ....

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after reading the comments you left on others answers my answer would be she is a user. Love is a 50 / 50 thing. There are low points when 1 gives 90 to carry another thru a rough spot and viseversa. Dump her and find a person who is not a taker
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Based on what you've said here I gave no idea what's happening. What is clear is if things are this tenuous after being together for 4 years there is something (or something's) very wrong in this relationship. I don't know why she doesn't think you love her. Clearly one or both if you have issues. Either get professional help together or get away from each other. Life us entirely too short to live like this.

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If u like it then u should of put a ring on it ohohohoh... 4 years is a long time, and Valentine's Day is coming up, she is most likely hinting towards a ring. Make this Valentines day the best 1! :-)

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