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How do you stop missing your ex boyfriend?

I have a new boyfriend who I love but I can't forget my ex. What do I do?

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Eat some bacon, you'll forget.

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we all have someone we miss especially when it was someone who you cared about, but this happens in every relationship and over time you will forget it. just takes time. just who ever this guy is if he makes you happy then be the best girlfriend you can be to him.

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Me and my ex were together for 3 years and he was my first love and everything else and my new boyfriend has been my best friend for 3 years. I love them both and it is hard to forget about the first and me and my new boyfriend always talk about my ex and how I feel. He knows I still love him and he knows I love my ex too.
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but you have to choose which one you will invest your love either ur bf or ex's you cant invest in 2 it doesnt work that way
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Ik my new bf will invest everything he has to me and he says it everyday and my ex only used to say I have all his love
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just lt the ex go and look to the future
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Why'd you dump your ex?
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Because he started lying to me and going behind my back after 3 years
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Oh. o.o
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Thank you guys so much. I came to a conclusion. I'm staying with my new bf. He makes me the happiest and he is the best thing to ever happen to me.
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So sweet, I need some bacon.
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Go slap him once.... do all the back-bitching!!!

Call him once... tell him how much u hate him!!!

Write his name on a paper in big letters... In front of u burn that paper...crush it and finally flush it!!!

You'll feel BETTER!!!! :P

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Already slapped him and burned everything I had that had to do with him and it didn't help at all. It felt good in the moment but after I felt like crap
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sooooo...... if u feel so much for him, why did u broke up in the first place!!??
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why did you get with someone if you arent over your ex.? sounds like your just using this new guy and you are going to end up hurting him...so for the sake of you 2 you should let him know how you really feel and for me the way i used to get over guys was to think of everytime they made me mad and what i didnt like about them and i would think to myself "ugh! i cant believe i was with that idiot!" haha

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I can think of a lot of those times he mad me made but there is more where he made me happy in the 3 years we were together
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i was with an ex for 3 years as well and for me at that time we broke up which was when we barely had 3 years i had the mentality of if he leaves me it wasnt meant to be and i shouldnt cry over him i shouldnt miss him instead i know theres many more guys out there better than him and who will not be like him and there will be guys who will treat me better and i know i will find true love with someone who will be the correct guy and so i did..6 months later i met my husband an we got together 1 day before my bday and were happily married and have a beautiful baby girl and i am so glad so happy so relieved to have ended up with my husband than with any of the other dumbas$es i was with
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Try to forget about your old love life - if you do, then you and your new boyfriend can have great times together. If you still can't stop thinking about your ex, go visit him occasionally and everything will be fine.

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I still see and talk to him like everyday and it don't help. We talk about everything in the past with us
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idk that stinks because now idk what to tell you - maybe see a counseler or pray or something
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Do something fun with your new BF to get your mind off the old one

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Why are we always on the same questions? Are you spying on me? 0.0
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Wat do you think we should do? Everything we do is fun and after we have fun I think of my ex and the fun things we used to do. I spend hours a week crying to my bf about my ex. Like I said he was my best friend before anything and that is why he is so good to me.
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Go out to eat, Go to a motel for the night just you and your bf, Go on a walk with him, Play a video game with him. that kind of stuff
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I... need... BACON!!!!!
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Busy yourself with everyday life. It's not easy especially when there's love involved. Take it day by day and soon your heart will heal and find calm and peace within yourself. When all is well the only thing that will be left is beautiful memory of what once was

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Get a new boyfriend.

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I am thankful to God I am already 58 plus and God has saved me from this shock.

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its difficult but try to engage yourself in new hobbies or go for a vacation with friends

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