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I need honesty, if you had a 16 year old daughter dating an 18 year old boy that's okay, but how would you feel if he looked 30?

I need to know how my mom will react to my boyfriend. I have known him since I was 13 and he was 15 and he is a sweet heart but he doesn't look like it. My best friend who is not a backstabbing told me he looked scary. I know he isn't what most people would consider attractive and honestly it doesn't bother me but I need to know how my mom would react. She is always talking about me bringing home a gorgeous guy because (not being conceited) I am really pretty. And to top it all off he looks 30. So how would you feel if your sweet happy bubbly 16 year old brings home an unattractive guy who looks 30? And again I don't care how he looks but to be honest looks are important in my family, we consist of mostly beautiful women. And though we would never be cruel to an ugly person the people in my family look for attractive partners.

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Your mom will most likely question you. If he really is 18 and you truly have feelings for him. Let him meet your family. It's your choice to be with him. Not theirs.

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All parents want their Daughter, son happy
So let him meet your family and show them that you're happy with him :)

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