its only fair if he gets to spend time with his friends too. He can't just just put them aside. If he chooses to push them aside they might not be there for him when he wants to come back. If he is constantly spending time with them and not you then i think that would be a problem
While he's hangin out with buddies, then that gives you free time to hang out with your friends as well....you should only be mad if he's ALWAYS hangin out with them and NEVER makes time for you.....can't spend every waking moment together though.....
No, because Girls are built emotionally different than Guys, He just wants to go and be a Dude, as long as you trust him and you have mutual Respect for each other everything will be Fine, to Love him would be to make sure he is Happy and let him go play with his Friends I am sure you probably won't be interested in going and participating in their boyish activities
I'm not sure if I understand the question ... Upset about what? Upset that he would have the audacity to want to spend time with his chums .. or that he doesn't want to spend time with you?
Either way .. you should not be upset with either. In fact, you should appreciate that he wants a normal life .. and still wants to include you in it.
If you feel you need to control your relationship so much as to dictate who your bf can hang with and who he can not .. then you have got a bumpy road ahead of you. THAT is WAYYY too controlling. Overbearing control and jealousy has no place in a loving relationship.
You have to ask yourself .. Do you want a 'relationship' or a 'dictatorship' .. Chasms of difference between the two. Nothing wrong with being individuals in a relationship.