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heartme: 3 months ago | Last edited at 12:25PM on 2/5/2013

How can I get through to him?

My boyfriend has been putting me on the back burner lately, and I don't think he means to, but anyways were fighting right now and i'm trying to get him to think about our relationship and where it is going, and to think about me also. He wants to go to college (awesome) but he wants to move to another town to do so, and we just moved in together and now i'd have to move out and everything. Also this college is linked to the one in our town it has the same programs and everything. Then all the sudden he tells me he doesn't want kids anymore... I tried to talk to him about this, and he pretty said I was over reacting so I left and am staying at a friends house. I want to see what he is doing to me... I'm just not sure if he can really take this seriously. I need advice people!

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directioner4eva: 3 months ago

sounds like hes trying to start a fight and hes doing his best to get away from you.......... i read the whole thing and i think you should break up with him! he seems to not care about you or listen to you! DUMP HIM!!!!!!!!!

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madecene: 3 months ago

you hum to was dord

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mikale: 3 months ago via iPhone

How old are you again?

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madecene: 3 months ago

My boyfriend has been putting me on the back burner lately, and I don't think he means to, but anyways were fighting right now and i'm trying to get him to think about our relationship and where it is going, and to think about me also. He wants to go to college (awesome) but he wants to move to another town to do so, and we just moved in together and now i'd have to move out and everything. Also this college is linked to the one in our town it has the same programs and everything. Then all the sudden he tells me he doesn't want kids anymore... I tried to talk to him about this, and he pretty said I was over reacting so I left and am staying at a friends house. I want to see what he is doing to me... I'm just not sure if he can really take t

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mikale: 3 months ago via iPhone

I'm so confused...

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peterocpa: 3 months ago

The relationship is over.

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tatigurl123: 3 months ago

thats rude

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xjoshuaxmonsterx: 3 months ago

if you love him doit or long distance relationship

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adriss21912: 3 months ago

You should tell him if he isnt wanting the relationship to let you know not make you wonder. If he is hard headed i would just give him time it's hard to talk to somebody like that

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tic_tac: 3 months ago

Slap him

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krissy1980: 3 months ago via iPhone

If he wants you to go with him then go with. If not just drop the subject if he wants to break up then he will be looking for any reason to do it so just chill out and focus on good things like the time you have now.

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Ninja_Jackie_san: 3 months ago

A few weeks ago my boyfriend told me that he does not want to continue living with me. We were fighting a lot, and now he is my ex boyfriend. I moved out, and life goes on. It sounds like your relationship is over :(

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bubalu: 3 months ago

If he really wants different things than you, I don't think it's going to work. If he doesn't want kids and you make him have kids, he might end up resenting you and the kid. You should talk to him about all of it...you feeling like he's putting you on the back burner, college, maybe moving, kids, etc. Might have wanted to do this before moving in together, but you need to find out if this is something you guys can work on or if you guys even want to work at it. Good luck.

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deniselashawncradic: 3 months ago

you should hang with him more

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anklet: 3 months ago via Android

move on he seems to be

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Roadkill3610: 3 months ago via Android

he is not going to be a boyfriend anymore much less will he be a decent. husband as hard as it will be the first chance you get pack up and just disappear. do not give him a chance to hurt you for the last time by arguing while you are packing and leaving let him come home to an empty house and don't loom back this guy will hurt you bad if you let him.

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