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So I have a gf who I love and will always love and we both plan to marry and I know we will marry. but all the sudden the thought "if you were single who would you date" came up in y head and I thought " I would date this other girl" but now I feel bad because I feel like I have a back up girl or second choice girl if my gf were to break up. I don't want to live knowing that I would date this one girl knowing I have a gf. I love my gf more but the problem is I feel like I have a back up when really I love only my gf.

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Dude, coming from a girl, we all have back ups. Yes, all us girls would love to think, 'oh, he loves me and would never think of another girl like he does me.' But frankly, that isn't true. I have a back up guy, ad so does a lot of my friends. So, don't mention it to her, that is something you keep to yourself. You will get over that thought soon enough. But, like I just said, don't bring it up to your gf. That is the quickest and easiest way to loose a long term girl friend. Though I don't know you, I am glad to know you found the perfect girl :)

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