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Is he cheating?

ok so lately my bf and I have been arguing over a lot of things. he says I complain about things too much, get mad over nothing, and get mad when hes with his friends. I found out from his best friend that he has been lying about almost everything he says to me and that he ignores me when he's with his friends. I am not the kind of person that gets mad over much of anything. but now I don't trust him. if he lies about all this, could he be cheating? he doesn't do much to show he likes me anymore. no compliments, hardly texts and rarely calls. he doesn't even want to hold hands anymore. what's up with this?

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If you don't trust him anymore, why does it matter if he's cheating? Just break up with him.

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This doesn't mean he is cheating. It could mean that he has lost interest in you.

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i hate to say it but he doesnt want to see you anymore. Dont you realize that?

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Honey who cares if he's cheating. Regardless you need a new bf because... You deserve better than that. Everybody deserves better than that!

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He's probably losing feelings for you

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Not sure , but you shouldn't jump to conclusions of him cheating there a possibility but if hes the boy you started dating and you dont believe hes like that then dont. But i suggest sitting down and talking to him , but dont bring up that you think hes cheating. That could blow up into a big fight and no one would want that. Just ask him how he thinks your relationship is going simple questions like that, and hope for the best. Maybe something is wrong family, friends or something different. Hope this helped

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could not always mean his cheating but maybe his just getting over you. personally I wouldn't stay in a relationship like that if I were u id break it off

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He may have lost the romantic feelings he felt for you when you guys first dated. If he keeps lying and raises his voice at you often he is not right for you. You need a new lover someone who is kind and gentle like a gentlemen. I will tell you this now do not search for that lover cause he will be waiting for you when you come.

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Thanks! I just didn't understand why he'd say I complain or get mad a lot. Haha I rarely get mad about anything. My friend brought up cheating which is why I asked this....
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Your welcome! He must be overanalyzing things which is rather odd. He is not cheating just loosing the romantic feelings.
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Sounds tired of you.... Doubt he's cheating... Just finished.

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This can mean that he's probably lost interest in you or he just needs some space to be alone and think. Think about the future of the both of you. Relationships are based on trust, compromise, friendship, love and communication. If anything there is missing it tends to be a bit stingy. Give him time, It's probably what he's demanding right now.

Go out too. I mean don't date other people. But think for yourself, your priorities and what not. What you want in life. What makes you happy and the like. Assess your life plans and try and clear your head and make a conscious decision on what solution can work to fix this and not what's wrong and who's fault is it kinds of thoughts.

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Weeeee! Sorry was doing French. I'm all happy and stuffs for you. I think you need a hug :)
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Haha.. thanks :) I'd love a hug... actually....

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I'd hug you if you were bottom performer too. Or middle performer. I'd just hug you, whatever the event.
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Haha I think I'm gonna go get me some chocolates later....Gonna go to school too to pay for the mountain trip for next week..

hihi... :) really happy right now..
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You should be. I am too. I'm happy for you :)
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Were you ever like the top of the class?
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4 months ago....... mmm
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You Were Just Showing Him You Cared Theres Nothing Wroong With That' And Yea Maybe He Did Lose Interest for You!

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Dump him

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He is being dishonest with you. Is that not enough? Are there varying levels of dishonesty that you find acceptable? And if so where do you draw the line? That is something only you can decide for yourself. But to get back to your question: Yes, it is possible he is cheating. But even if he isn't cheating, he is lying to you and ignoring you and not being honest or supportive. I once read somewhere that those who can be trusted with a little can be trusted with a lot. It's your call but if my girlfriend was pulling that nonsense on me I would move on. Honesty to me, and availability are important for both people to have and to give in a relationship. Good luck.

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3...2...1...DUMP

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"Cheating"?
No.
He's tired of your act & ready to dump you.

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If You question weather it's a good relationship or not, the I would say its not a good idea.

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How ever much he may have once been attentive, it would seem that now, he's just not that into you.

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if somebody cheats in relationship, they dont have the power of conc entration or becoming something in life. a person who has the intention to cheat will never propser. if some body has that quality that is called b........... ness

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He'd be crazy, you be fine

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