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. I was only 11 years old when my dad Ra ped me. Then when I went to India by myself to visit my grandparents place my dance teacher there did it to me. Plus my dad did it again when I came back. It's the worst thing to go thru at such young age. It destroys ur self confidence and how u view ur self. Till this day I self harm and I have severe depression and I have an eating disorder. It's the worst thing to go through and I honestly wish no one went through it. I also get bullied at school and online so it adds to the pressure. Sorry for unloading on you guys. But I honestly don't know what to do.

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you should talk to someone about it, it will help you feel better i think if you let someone else know :) just let it out with someone like a therapist or a close friend etc..

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I did :/ but all people say is I'm sorry. I don't know what to do with their sorrys. I can't do anything with it and it doesn't make me feel better :/
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oh my i didn't think people will really be like that to someone who is suffering and needs someone to talk to... have you tried telling your mom?
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Yea I did. And all she said was my dad probably did it because he had a high dosage of pain medication (which he did since he had many frequent headaches) and it didn't really matter since I'm gonna lose my v anyways.
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awe well i hope you find help from someone :/ good luck ..
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Thank you. Thanks for helping me :)
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your welcome, im very sure theres a rainbow coming your way :) just keep your head high and stay strong ; ..
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Tell someone.

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I told my mom but she told me it was probably because of his high dosage of prescribed pain medication
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Ew. She doesn't find it disgusting that you and her both had intercourse with the SAME MAN...not to mention the man who made you. Lol
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Umm yea. I just can't wait to leave the house when I'm 18. Or I could just kill my self cuz it would be easier
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sad to hear bu keep urself up and watch the movie cyberbully its sad but you'll be glad after u watch it

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Thanks :) ill try to watch it tonight
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Get a good therapist. So that way, you can have someone to talk freely to and not be judged.

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I don't have that kind of money :/
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Maybe your school counsilor like MeganJoseph said or... Can you talk to your family?
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Oh... Sorry, I just read your comment for Megan and I'm sorry about that but, like I said, maybe a close family member?
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No because my mom doesn't really care and neither do my grandparents
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Are you Christian? Or do you believe in God?
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No I'm not and no I don't. God wasn't there when I needed him so I don't believe in him
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Oh... Because I was just going to say go to him.....

I don't really tell people this but I am now for your sake even though it's open internet, but I went through pretty much the same exact thing you did and I know how it is REALLY hard. I also thought that God wasn't there for me because I was threatened and didn't tell for the longest time, then people thought I was lying because I didn't say before, and I had sooo many horrible court dates and he was never caught and he never got in ANY trouble at all. Now I do believe in God and it's behind me... I forgave all those people who hurt me and I feel sooo much better now. Don't get me wrong though, it did scar me and I will always remeber. I mean, it's definitly NOT something you can forget, but I just wanted to tell you that...
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At the begining when I said him... I meant God. :)
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Wow you really know how to convince a person. I can keep my mind open for him but I'm not sure. I'm so sorry you had to go through that
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It's okay... Like I said, it's behind me... And I sure do hope that you get to know God. :)
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talkng with a school counsilor will help. you need to tell a trusted adult and trust you will feel better if you do

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I don't trust the school counselor because one of my close friends was sui cidal and she went to talk to the counselor and the counselor didn't help her and my friend ended up committing Sui cide :/
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i think u should tell ur mom.......... because she really needs to know about that...

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