"normal" is different for each person because each person is unique. but please remember that each person has their own idea of right and wrong and normal. unfortunately, many people are very rude in expressing their opinions, so for your sake i strongly suggest that you seek help from your parents, pastor, school counselor, or some other trusted adult to help you learn how to hear people's criticism without harming your self esteem.
What?!?!?!? I find it weird because im 13 and im a girl. just if your clothes don't look girly and if you can't tell if its from a girl. Just were boys' clothes. And why do you were girl clothes and undergarments?
Nope that would be abnormal. Ya might want to chat with a professional. That being said don't let it get you down and stress you out. That's why talking to a professional is do important. They will be able to help you deal with it. Good luck
No, honey, it's really not normal. You might want to talk to someone about it, maybe a counselor or something. It doesn't matter if other people do it or not, it really isn't normal. At least that's my opinion.
You may have a transgender problem. It just means genetically you may have a or some female genes. Sort of like you're a girl in a boy's body. Cher, the singer, daughter was born a girl but she is now a he named Chaz Bono. You may find comfort in reading about his story. There is nothing to be ashamed of.
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Is it because of curiosity? If so, than yes. I believe its normal. Some guys do it out of curiosity or simply because they think its funny. However if you feel comfortable and like to.. than maybe you might have a psychological problem, and you should get help.
There's no such thing as "normal". That being said, curiosity is to be expected of kids your age. However, if you feel "right" or more comfortable viewing yourself as a girl you may be transgendered. Don't let this scare you, talk to a school councilor or therapist. Perhaps talk to a parent, if you feel comfortable enough, or an extremely close friend. Good luck! I know transgendered people, it's better to figure it out younger rather than older, so it's good you are figuring out who you are :)
There are many lgbt youth/support groups you could contact for help if you would like too. Try searching the Internet, I know there is a GSA at my school and a support group for the township.
Do you picture yourself AS the girl, or do you just like the feeling of girl's clothes on your body? Do you prefer snitching clothing recently worn by a girl or new stuff? The first scenario means you are gay, the second just means you're a little bit perverted.
Don't listen to everyone being mean and saying it's horrible, I think if you want to, then go ahead! No one is stopping you! And for the people saying they don't agree with it at all then that's their problem. You don't have to speak to a professional if you don't want to and while I won't say everyone does it, it probably isnt SUPER uncommon, I'm sure there are some people like that.
middle school? a laugh stock. high school? Just do what you want. People will laugh one way or another. my opinion...I find that creepy and I'd avoid the person all together. Wear a wig.. maybe you'll pass as a girl.. whatever floats your boat.