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How do I know when this girl is lying or not?

There is this one girl. I have been trying to be a friend to her, because she is going through a hard time with her mom having cancer for the 2 time. She has no one to talk to but me. But she is blowing her chances! I keep finding out that she is lying to me. How do I know when she is or not? Please help! Thanks!

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If its a big thing that she lied to you about, then I say just ignore her as well. Also remember, that once she lies, she's a liar...And that won't change.

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I want to ignore her. But I am the only person she has to talk to. If I do ignore her, she might do more bad things then she does.
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That's her problem not yours...probably the main reason why no one talks to her is because she's a liar and they've learned their lessons from her already...it might as well be your turn to learn your lesson bad just stop talking to her.
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Okay. Thanks.(:
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what has she lied about?

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A lot! One time, she said her sister cut her hair off, but she actually did it to herself. She lies to my mom, and steals my stuff.
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she was probably embarrased about the hair cut and wanted someone else to blame, or wanted the attention you'd give her by having something like that happen to her.

What did she lie to your mom about, and what has she stolen from you?
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She lied to my mom about stealing a necklace. It was a really expensive piece of jewelry, and she stole it, then said she didn't . I have a lot of old barbies(from when I was younger) and she took one. Then a dress.
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You are probably right about her being embarrassed. I still wish she would have told me though.
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she only cares about herself. I would keep her out of your house. You can be there for her if she needs to talk if you want, but I wouldn't want someone like that in my life.
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I have tried every excuse to keep her out. But if I tried any harder, then I would be lying. I am scared of her. She hits me. But I am afraid if I tell her to stop she will just hit me more. What do I do???
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You should just keep her out of your life. she sounds very abusive. a relationship (as friends, or more) should be give and take. and she's expecting you to give give give.
Just be like we can't be friends anymore.
Or tell her that she isn't allowed in your house because your mom suspects she stole from you guys.
There's nothing she can do if she doesn't have permission to enter.
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I guess you are right. Thank you so much! You have really helped me a lot! (:
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It really means a lot.
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I'm happy to help :)
Also you shouldn't feel bad about lying to her, if she can treat you that way.
Say anything necessary to keep your distance.
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That is also very good advice. I will remember that. Thank you again.(: You have been so helpful.
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What did she say to you?? Need more info;)

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She said that her sister cut her hair off, but she did. She lied to my mom, she steals my things too.
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Oh my !! Don't be friends with her.. Did you ask her why she would cut her hair an all the things for!!?
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Yes. She said, "Just cause" then changed the subject. Trust me, I don't want to be her friend, but I am the only friend she has, and she needs a friend right now. What do I do??
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Will first of all .. She likes you and she's trying to get you to like her an all .. :) so maybe you could get her a gift?? And yeah she does need a friend !!
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I have gotten her a gift. TWICE! Haha, she just wants to keep getting things, so she takes my things.
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Oh haha!! What did you get her for a gift? And what did she take of yours?
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I have given her scrap books, nail polish, even chocolate! And she too my old Barbie doll and her clothing. She had also taken a really expensive necklace of my moms.
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Oh my!! Did she give it back even?
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Sorry, I should be more specific. The Barbie doll she took was from when I was little. I just haven't gotten rid of them yet.
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No. She hasn't. Every time I see her she says she "didn't mean to forget it" and that she will bring it next time. Well, it has been "next time" 14 times.
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That's ok! Oh wow are you kidding ., 14 times???
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Nope. I have counted. xD
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Oh my and she still forgot the necklace .. Like how did you tell her about the necklace that she took it anyways?? What did u say? Or the doll?
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I didn't notice the necklace. My mom did. Me I saw her take something, so it was the necklace. And then I found out about my Barbie and called her. I said that I think she took it. Sure enough, she looked in her backpack(at her house when I was on the phone) and said, " oh, I so have your Barbie. Whoops." Did I mention, that the Barbie she took was her favorite Barbie of mine?
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Oh wow!! She said she had it.. How did it get in her back up ?? And .. Oh my your favorite!!
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Back pack I meant lol
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When I went downstairs, she put it in her back pack. ~dundundun~
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Well thank you for helping me, and talking with me. I have to go to bed. Goodnight!(:
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Hi
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Yep your welcome I love helping people.. Sorry I just now got this message .. Hahaa... And hi what are you doing ??
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I'm sick. ): On valentines day! And my family is moving, so I have deal with being sick during the process. Oh well. What's up?
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Sorry to hear you are sick, hope you feel better and get well soon :D
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Oh! Why are you moving and where to?
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I'm not really doing anything .. So nothing much I'm just bored so I got on here I saw you message :) wasup with you?
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stop talking to her!

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It's not that easy.
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Just ignore her completely.
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She follows me. And her mom has cancer for the 2 time. She needs a person to talk to.
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hmmmm that is a tough one... maybe so she doesn't steal anything don't go to your house with her!
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I can't go anywhere else. I'm not even aloud at her house!
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just be friends at school, that will solve the stealing problem.... i think
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