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lala1415: 3 months ago

Is it normal to only be attracted to a certain race?

I'm white and blonde(female) but only like Asians, I don't know why and I feel bad about it

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tralbry: 3 months ago

If it's based on a pleasing aesthetic then it seems relatively harmless but if it's based on something subtle or deeper psychologically then it may matter more. For example, if I preferred Asian girls because the eyes are more appealing then that'd be ok, but if I preferred them because I believed them to be more passive or more easily dominated then that would be saying something about my perceptions as well as my motivations about what is "good" to find in a girl. I mean you can prefer to be more dominant too but you should probably be more honest in owning up to how that might not be so healthy.

If your guilt is based on something like this then the guilt makes sense. But only you know what motivation you have inside.

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lala1415: 3 months ago

other people tell me its not normal, thats why i've started to question it, i wasn't guilty about it until other people told me it was bad

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xxXEpicFailureXxx: 3 months ago

No. I think it's kind of similar to liking different genders. As long as you don't look down on other people.

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Minji: 3 months ago via iPhone

I know lots of people like that, so I guess it's normal :)

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shikitty78: 3 months ago via iPhone

I'm the same way. I don't feel bad about it!

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DeclairedOk: 3 months ago

Opposites attract.

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whatisnext: 3 months ago

Since you said that you feel bad about only liking Asian, it means deep down you may feel guilty about that. Why, I have no clue, however when we feel bad about something, there is usually a reason behind the feeling.

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lala1415: 3 months ago

Cuz it feels racist even though I don't mean it that way

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whatisnext: 3 months ago

Your subconcious does, so if you want to resolve this issue, stop dating Asian people,

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lala1415: 3 months ago

wouldn't that be racist too

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whatisnext: 3 months ago

Why would that be racist? For some reason you feel bad about dating Asian people, so you don't date them. Maybe you don't understand the term racist.

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lala1415: 3 months ago

no, i do, but you seem to think my subconcious is racist and i don't know it. If you're gonna get all angry don't answer the question. No one's forcing you to answer it.

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whatisnext: 3 months ago

Why did you think I became angry? I didn't realize I said anything that would be interpreted as angry. I'm sorry.

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MartinGreen: 3 months ago

I am a white male that is mainly attracted to Asian women. Been that way since I was a kid

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pinetac88: 3 months ago

since you feel bad about it youre not racist lol -- you like what you like .. youre attrcted to a certain race but youre not putting the other races down or slandering them

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