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what does it mean if my boyfriend always gets on to me when guys "try" to talk to me? even if i dnt pay them no mind with or without him

around. And i can post a decent picture on Facebook that doesn't show nothing inappropriate and he gets upset when guys like it more than females. Should i just deactivate my Facebook?

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It means he's insecure. I'd be thinking about the relationship.

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He's too jealous and controlling.

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it seems like he doesnt trust you at all

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hi
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hey how are you
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good i missed u
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i missed you to
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how many time are you going to leave this time
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30 min
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why do you keep leaving
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i dont now i love u though
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i did
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sent back
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got it
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2 min left
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i dont like this
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but he is really good to me..thats the only thing that makes it so hard to just walk away...but him getting upset about that will eventually power over me and ill get tired of it soon or later...
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if you dont wont to hurt you self in the long run leave now
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it will be hard to get back in one after you wait to long i know this because i went through one and it took me a long time to trust some one again
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thats it though....it took me a while before i got with the one im with cuz of trust issues..but i managed....ive always been hurt ..after this one i dnt think ima be in another one for a long time...
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i sed the same thing i just dont want the same thing happen to you
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He's worried about you leaving him to be with someone else.

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Why would you be with anyone that treats you like thus? Don't make the mistake of thinking this is him loving you. This isn't about you. It's all about him. He clearly views you as a position. Trust me, this is not what you want to be.

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Miss_JT77 and newbuddah and cookieroma nailed it. This attitude of his is classic and I had a guy like that once, too. You need to rethink this relationship. Trust me.
He's too insecure and is trying to control you by making you think it's your fault (whatever IT is, and I bet it's more things than just Facebook).
If he tries to get you to stop seeing any of your friends, you should cut him loose. He'd only get worse, if you let him tell you what to do, and his insecurity and distrust are not something you can "fix" by pushing away your friends/family.

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It means you need to find another boy friend, your life belongs to you, to live it as you see fit, to make your own choices and be happy. You will not find long term happiness with this guy.

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No, don't deactivate the FB. That is the first step in isolating yourself, which is not healthy. He will never be placated, no matter what you do. The problem is in him, not you, but if you stay in the relationship long enough, you will think it is you and try to please him.

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He had insecurity problems. He gives you the : I trust you but I don't trust them line. You need to put a stop to it now because it can get dangerous for you in the future. He doesn't like pictures you put out in FB and pretty soon he's going to tell you what you can and cannot wear. The relationship does not get better with time if he doesn't help himself

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yea, he has insecurities swept under the rug. Don't deactivate your fb. Let him know that he can't control you like that and if he still acts That way...dump him. He should trust you unless you've given him a reason not to.

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I say.. Hes being selfish and i would be thinkig about a break up.. Sorry, but thats what needs to happen

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