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What kind of counseling do you get when you leave your wife because she is abusive to you?

Is there any type of counseling for guys that have been through abusive relationships or marrages.

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Yes its called jack daniels

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Did you want to ask me something ? I got off early yesterday and didn't see your question till this morning !
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Yes sir i just wanted to say sorry about the 49 rs but it was a really good game in the second half it could of gone either way....you say you live by san francisco next time i go near there i would love to buy you lunch sir if its possible.....?
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Sure ! But I live closer to Folsom . Near Sacramento . S.F. is about 90 minutes away ! It was a good game ! They'll be back ! Actually , the little town we live in is Fair Oaks . Let me know when you might be through !
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i lived in rancho cordova for one year i know where that is thank you sir
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how is your wife being abusive to you?

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She just constantly yelled at me for everything from not making her coffee right to not making enough money. I used to work two full time jobs but quit one to please her and starting seeing less of my kids because she did not like them. She even had to make the holiday’s torcher for everyone. I had to ask her for my own money for X-mas So I could buy her and her kids and my own kid’s gifts. She made it very hard, I told her I would figure it out and I did I opened up my own bank account and deposited 100 dollars in it to go x-mas shopping. Just stuff like that. She accused me of cheating every week even thou she knew where I was at and what I was doing 24 hours a day. And told me to leave almost every week knowing I had no money or place to go. I left and it’s been hard and now I am going to divorce her but I need some help to get my head back on straight, and to keep from going back to her because it’s so hard to be alone and all that.
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I see, it sounds like she has serious trust issues in the first place, but this does stem from you allowing her to have complete control of the relationship, instead of having it founded upon mutual respect for one another, finalize the divorce, get some counseling for your psychological state, in order to make sure nothing has damaged you, and if you ever do build another relationship, make sure it is founded on mutual respect and trust
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Im impressed preppy nice job
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The same conseling that abused women get. Counseling is tailored to the individual, not just your gender. Trust me, unfortunately both types are equally as common.

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you should try out for marriage councling

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Yes, there are counsellors who take on this type of cases. I had a wife who liked toi slap me in the face. It took a bit of counseling after I escaped from her to get my head on straight again. Ask around at your church if you go to one or in the yellow pages if not. Good luck.

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counseling is counseling like abuse is abuse period.hopefully you find a good counselor that helps in domestic violence victims. aswell as she get counseling for whatever makes her feel that being abusive is ok.

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There is an excellent organization called W.E.A.V.E. (Women Escaping A Violent Environment). Find a local one and they will refer you to assistance. They will do this for you as a man.

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